The Past

United States
August 11, 2006 11:03pm CST
I'm having multiple dreams of someone I broke up with a long time ago. In the real world it seems as if everything was over and I am seeing someone new. However, I keep having these romantic dreams of me and that person from the past. In these dreams we embraced, held hands, kissed and it felt that what we had was real until I wake up. Over the years he's grown sweeter but there are very few or vague signs of him wanting to have that kind of relationship with me. I do still think of this person, not as often as before. It's always him that I'm seeing. What do my dreams mean?
4 responses
• United States
12 Aug 06
Do you have closure from that relationship?
• United States
22 May 07
no
• United States
23 May 07
You really need to talk to your friend. Be open and honest (not about your dreams unless you feel it safe to do so) but about closure. This way you can receive the proper balance and maybe the dreams will stop. Unless of course you have a thing for your friend, then they won't stop until you tell him how you feel.
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
22 May 07
this is what i be dreaming about is my ex i do not know why but something he keep telling me in my dream and i do not know what it is if it is that he want me back or what i do not know
@ebberts (784)
• United States
12 Aug 06
maybe you are not sure of your new relationship, and are comparing him, to your past love. Is there something you don't have in this relationship that you did in the past one and if so, are you willing to do without it. If you find you still have strong feelings for your past love. Tell him.
• Philippines
19 May 07
maybe you didn't have a formal closure with your previous relationship?? or mayb your past relationship is traumatic that is why you're having doubts now that it seems like you're starting into a new one...