A Handsome and Rich or an Intelligent and Average boyfriend?

As u said both give her the freedom to do whatever she wants to do... Now she must select as to who loves,cares,has tendency to sacrifice,burn to maintain the relationship in lean times..... Also what her gut n ineer feeling says.... moreover hw are both the families.....as she also has to stay with the in-laws..... what her parents feel.... seeing all this,she must decide her partner.....

Even if I combine the characteristics of the 2 men together into only one man, I think that it would be hard for me to recommend him for her. She should consider her own personality. She should consider which of the two would really, truly make her happy. I've had a rich boyfriend before but he considered his friends more important than me. I have an intelligent boyfriend now but he doesn't trust my decisions. You see, it's really up to her to make the decisions. She should know what she really wants.

Money isn't everything and if he's as briliant as you say he is then maybe he can figure out how to make more money to help support her.

I feel that your friend should go for the intelligient and more caring guy. To me, nothing is more important in a marriage than mutual happiness. If she would be happier with the more intelligient and caring guy, then why not choose him over the money? Besides, the smart guy could eventually earn more money than the other rich guy :)

While money is nice, it isn't everything. She needs to choose the guy who in ten years, she's still going to be able to have a good conversation with. If she currently feels like she has stronger feelings for the 'intelligent' one, then she's always going to feel that she settled if she chooses the other guy. Pining after someone else isn't a good foundation for any relationship. And it doesn't sound as if the 'average but intelligent' guy is sitting at home doing nothing with his life. In the end, it has to be her decision, and not her family's.

Its basically a choice between A Materialism, or B Genuine attraction. Its obviously B, dating someone purely for their material benefits can ONLY lead to bad things.

I would go for the intelligent one. There is just something about a smart man that drives me coo coo. I can not judge the rich guy, but I would sure be interested to know how and when he came into the money. That would make a very big difference. If he is old money he may treat her well, but new money seems to be unsettled and impulsive. But, then again if he is old money he could be a little arrogant and spoiled. I would definitely go with the smart guy. If he is bright, he has the ability to make money and hold on to it or inveest it well. But, like the old saying goes "A fool and his gold are soon parted."

Money you can make online LOL so a rich guy is not necessary and an intelligent boyfriend hmmmmm you can also find online, there goes my point. Well seriously I think one should always follow his/her heart otherwise one will be unhappy, being rich is never going to fill the void.

If I was your friend, I would choose the intelligent guy with a brilliant and talented soulmate. The feeling is the more important thing for me than other factors. Take one of my friends for example, she has a boyfriend who seems not to be as considerate and gentle as their excellent guys. But she tells me that her boyfriend is full of merits like the sense of humor and optimistic attitute. I am just as same as my friend,I realy regard that the feeling is crucial for me to choose boyfriend. As for me, I did not like my boyfriend at first meet. As you know, he is like garfield, the lazy and fat cat, in the famous cartoom movie. However, I started to like him when I know more about him. I often tell my friens that I like the people with beautiful and charming apperance. Actually I really have boyfriend with different type. It is hard to imagine how it happened. As for some people, maybe feeling is not as important as we think. Some women I know try to find rich men and get married. They also could live a happy life with some effort. How to choose perhaps depends on what you really want.

She should follow what her heart tells her. Money isnt everything. Maybe, if the intelligent guy's hardworking, both of them could afford an ample living if ever they would be together. What's important is they love each other and there's understanding between them.

i think your friend is taking this the wrong way, she really wouldnt be able to tell whom she would fall for, its never really about the money , and why should she be thinking of the financial aspect what she should be thinking of is how she could improve her financial status without relying on a guy to spend for her needs, so that in that way she need not confuse herself, men are not vending machines,and love is not about the money one has, she is taking love for granted.

The world is just full of Yin and Yang stories. I will share a bit of my analyzing of people's life. Rich guy who had born in wealth owns material. But the material itself change his personality and the change was unseen by himself, then they start to lack of care. It is environment who is trying to drag him into. Even though he was from a poor guy at the beginning. Middle guy owns the balance tree. He swims in balance pool of material and care together. He sees everything clearly. He can feel what is being of adequate by material and what he felt about the poor condition. Poor guy owns the biggest life-struggling and pain. It's not bad, to have someone who is really hardworking and totally care about his family. But at the other side, the hole of fulfilling material needs, made them really hard to make decision sometimes. And the pain itself can mature him into full experience's guy -- but in other case, it can also make him thinking of taking "shortcut" way. It depends to each person's thought. Hope this is useful. All things had its own advantage and disadvantage. Nobody's perfect.

If given a chance, hehehe... I would choose the intelligent and average boyfriend. He's handsome, loving and most of all intelligent. He has a future and I'm sure just by using his intelligence, he could afford everything in the near future. We don't know you know, maybe he'll become the pres. of a company or somewhat. Because , for all I know, intelligent people who know how to use it will have a better future of course. So that's it, go for the intelligent and average... Good luck!

for me i prefer intelligent and average men. sometimes rich men are stubborn they dont think about their future because they know that they are rich and they will do nothing. while an intelligent and average men will strive hard just to fulfill their dreams. so what do you think?who will you choose

I think your friend need to chose verywell not only that she say that booth are caring and give all what she need, but how about the parent of men , she is welcome to them, even we will say that she will not leave to he mother in law but she need also that she will feel comportable & welcome us a family member. hope that it will help tp you friend my comments. Happy posting cutieweii

Based on your discription, I'd pick the smart guy. It seems like your friend likes him better anyway. Money isn't everything even if grew up poor.

This isn't really a decision that anyone can make but her. I wouldn't make the decision based on money or intelligence though. If I were her, I would decide based on how I felt about the boyfriend, and how he felt about me. It is much more important to have a loving relationship than money or brilliance.

For me, I would rather stick to the one I really love. But if the character should be the basis of choosing, I would rather have an intelligent and average boyfriend. Because for me, we can start there, with his capabilities. Because even if you have the money, that you have because of your parents, there is a greater chance to loose it if you dont know how to use it well.

I'd pick the intelligent and average guy. After all, being rich doesn't mean you're gonna be happy. Life changes, so who knows maybe later on she and the average guy can make more money than they can ever imagine? After all, he's intelligent. :-))) Plus, I always go with my heart. :-))))

i choose whom i can show my own self the one who accept me for who iam and the one who have the dreams and the courage to do all the responsiblity when we have the family someday.and most of all the one who make me feel special.