Is your parents marriage a love marriage or arranged marriage how are they now

Let have a better life - We got married, we love each other very much
@SHAMRACK (8576)
India
October 4, 2007 11:58pm CST
My parents marriage is arranged love marriage, my mom has told those love story about them. They are like perfect couples even now. But I hope to get a perfect spouse is one of the biggest gift of God.
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@b_gryl (419)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
My parents love each other that's why they got married. That time my mother was already pregnant and both of them are still young. I believe they really love each other because they had us who are fruits of their love. Sad to say but now they are separated. Maybe they are not really meant for each other and they deserve others who could love them more.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, So is the success of true love.
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@lexridley (231)
• Tokelau
5 Oct 07
Well my parents seem to have married out of convenianve more than anyhing else. I'm sure they love each other but they aren't in love with one another.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, All will get well to soon
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@subathra (3519)
• India
5 Oct 07
The marriage of my parents was an arranged one..its 35 years over now and still they are living as happy couples..expect sone silly tussles they never had big fights in their life..my mom is a very adjusting character but my dad looses temper easily but nowadays he too seems to be much polite which i have seen the changes in him all these years.you are absolutely right..its the great gift to get a nice life partner who fills all vacuums in life..after marriage.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, I too wish that a happy married life your life too.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
5 Oct 07
My parents marriage is an arranged love marriage by my uncle and they have been together for fifty-three years. My parents are living happily and healthily in their own apartment, enjoying their daily life and retired life. Every day they go out to exercise in the morning, especially my father. He goes to exercise very early in the morning at about four in the morning and comes back at seven. My father is eighty-two years now and very healthy except that he does not have a very good eyesight. My mom is home taking care of my father though she is seventy-two years old, ten years younger than my father. I feel so happy that they enjoy their life. A good couple.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, That really nice to know.
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@michecu (637)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
My parents wed because they love each other, i guess. My father married when he was 40 and my mother was 24, at that time. My mother's family even thought that my father was already married but he was not. My father's family was very surprised with his decision to finally settle down. Their marriage is a very successful one. I still have them now and I hope that if I marry somebody, it will be as successful as their marriage.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, Wish you a happy married life.
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• Philippines
5 Oct 07
Hi, Sham! My parents' marriage is an arranged marriage! My father was 48 and my mom was just 21 when they got married. It was my grandma who gave the blessing for their marriage even if it was against the will of my mom. She has a boyfriend, also young, so they can't do anything to go against the will of my grandma. My grandma's desire was just to give good life for my mom. As years gone by, my mom learned to love my father because he was super good person. Later, my mom learned that her ex was not a responsible husband to his wife. Although my mom was noisy when angered, but my father was faithful and very understanding to my mom. See...? it is through respect, understanding and faithfulness that you can attain a good family ): Age doesn't matter....he, he, he.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Oct 07
Hi, Lucky mom to have such an understanding husband. I too completely agree that age is no barrier for love. Wishes you too get have such a nice husband.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
26 Dec 07
My parents' marriage was an arranged love marriage. They were married when my mother was 19 and my father was 26. They've been married happily for 35 years now. I totally agree that getting a perfect spouse is a gift from God and not everyone is lucky but most people manage to make the best of what they get. All the best!
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
26 Dec 07
My parent marriage, because they love each other, they know when my dad assign in the place of mom, actually dad is a soldier & my mom just one young lady who work in the market to sale a vegetables ect. but when they decided to marry my grandpa & grandma is lot of comments first because my dad is army, everyone knows that army have lot of wife, but still they get marriage because both of them in love,pssssssssst get that story with my grandma dont tell he he he he .
@subha12 (18441)
• India
28 Dec 07
My parents marriage was an arranged marriage.My parents are also happy couple. it is really difficult nowadys to get a perfect life partner.
• China
7 Oct 07
Hi SHAMRACK!My parents marriage is a love marriage and they are quite happy together.It has been almost thirty years now.I thought arranged marriage was not that popular even thirty years ago.Now I am dating a young man who I met when I worked as a part-time oral english teacher.We get along very well and I am very happy these days.I hope your dream come true one day.
• Philippines
7 Oct 07
Shamrack, my parents' marriage is a love marriage. They get to know each other as pen pals that eventually led to their seeing each other and falling in love. They were together until my father passed away last 2001 at the age of 62. My mom is now 66 years old and her love for my Dad remains.
• Philippines
7 Oct 07
Hello there Shamrack, I haven't actually ask them about that one but i guess it was a love marriage. My mother got pregnant before they were married by my father. So I believed that they are both inlove. The sad thing happened that somewhere along the way they fall out of love for each other. Or maybe my father fall out of love for my mother that is why he go astray and leave us when we were still kids. They got seperated for almost 16 years now. But that's ok now we get over it. ^_^
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Oct 07
Hi, Hope the best will come forward
7 Oct 07
my parents marriage is also arranged love marriage. And I used to think that it is a traditional way. But after I came across my first boyfriend.I think it would be good way to achieve a marriage.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Oct 07
Hi, That is really nice to know