Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?

There are many ways in which you can win your parents' heart. You can begin by introducing your future wife to be but never introduce her as your future wife. Just bring her along into the family and make her and your parents get along first. Tell her that your parents are old fashion and that she should do something to win their heart. After a while I believe your parents could accept her, provided that she is a good girl and respect your parents. I think no parents would like to have an ill behavior daughter in law.

Of course I will prefer to the love marriage. Because I am not going to marry to his parents. I have to marry to someone who I love. If they don't accept to our love, then we have to do something for them to agree to it.

i would sy arrange marriage is better as they are more successful than love marriages..take the case of love marriage before the marriage the two will be soo close..but after marriage u wud not be able to spend as much time with your partner due to responsibilites while ur partner will expect as in past..and this can lead to break ups..but in case of arrange marriage u wont be expecting anything like this..

I prefer love marriage because for me marriage is a lifetime relationship that you will be going to have with your partner. So,I prefer that you love someone when you decide to enter in a relationship. In that way cheating is less to happen. I mean I think if you really cant learn how to love a certain person, that would be very difficult.

I prefer love marriage because for me marriage is sacred. I don't want to get marry with someone i don't love because it's like forcing myself and at the same it hurts a lot. If i would be in a situation where my parents don't like my special someone i think i would still fight my love and i'll do everything for them to like my love one.

Definitely love marriage, How can you decide to live your entire life with someone you have never seen, never loved or don't even know who they really are? That's just weird because you only get to live once so you must not waste your life away.

I prefer love marriage that is arranged. It is a well known truth that we can newer be happy if we make our parents who have done so much for us unhappy in any ways. I prefer love marriage because you got to know the person very well with whom you are going to spend rest of your life. In India we still not believe in divorces and so don't let that situation come in your life. this can be done by love marriage as love happens only when both are compatible to each other. Now comes the situation how to get the love arranged, for that you should tell your parents that I am going to marry someone who you think is good for my life and you can meet my boy friend or girl friend as the case may be and see that he or she is a perfec match for me, and each parents wish happiness of their children. Even then if they don't agree, you should say that you are not going to marry for next 4 to 5 years. As time passes your parents seeing your age would agree to the marriage. Once you are married then it's upto both of you how you manage to win the hearts of each and everyone in both the families not just the boys family. Hope each one have love marriage that is arranged ...... Happy loving.....

Hi There,I have No Dilemma in this discussion!!I am sure that I prefer Love marriage!!I am in marriage 32 years and all start with BIG LOVE!!!Regards Silvana

hehe always prefer love marriage.its king of childish if we go for arranger marriage