Male 25 going out with 33 year old woman!
By caramello
@caramello (4377)
Australia
236 responses
@brenduh (79)
• United States
5 Nov 06
a 25 yr old guy going out with a 33 yr old woman ~ nothing wrong with that as long as they are happy.. after all they are both adults.
however if you look at it as.. gee when she was 23 he was only 15.. yeah thats *nasty*
or how about when she was 15 he was only 7.. another *yuck* moment there..
and of course when she is 50 he will only be 42 which isnt bad..
as long as both people are adults and happy, treating each other right.. well than who cares.. ??
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
Thank-you for another positve, feeling better already.
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@Kackie3 (345)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Mom, you shouldn't worry too much, it might just fizzle out before things get too serious. But then again if you speak too much to him about not liking the idea of him going out with her, you might just push him closer to her. He will do what he wants anyway. He is an adult.
@kylesmiles (1910)
• United States
5 Nov 06
They are both adults, so I think they are old enough to make their own decisions. Not my business to comment or make judgement. As long as they are both happy.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
Thank-you for your response, much appreciated.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
28 Oct 06
There is nothing wrong in it. My neighbour is a 28 years man and he is living together with a 45 years old lady. Both are officers in a telecommunication factory. They are quiet comely couple and have wonderful relationship. Some males feel they are secure in females who are older than them.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
Thank-you for another positive response, much appreciated.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
Thank-you for responding, it is my son, maybe being too protective.
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@dad1444 (69)
• United States
7 Nov 06
well,i kind of agree,but not completly.
yes leave him alone in this relationship.
he;s not your baby anymore.
encorage him and her, if you can,be there for them,,if it dont workout, you have your son back,but ,you might just find a great friend in her as well.
but dont go along with every thing they want to try,or do,
@anca_e (963)
• Romania
6 Nov 06
Well, I think you should leave him live his life. If there is somebody to suffer and feel bad if this turns to be a bad experience, that's going to be him. It is true that you as a parent will suffer too, but trust me, the hurt and suffer he will feel will be much bigger then yours. Let him be happy if you want him to be your friend. Never try to forbid anything to your kids if you want them to be your friend and not enemy and if you don't want him to do anything you told him no to just to be agains your will.
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@sanell (2112)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Good for you, I think that it does not matter the age, as long as both are mature adults...I think it is perfectly fine, besides that, my sister's boyfriend is almost 3 years younger than her and he seems like he is same age..so everyone is different!
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@chocochurl (411)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
What is wrong with it, as long as they are inlove,... Age doesnt matter.. :)
@juicemilk (2283)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
I dont have any opinions on it really, each to his own.
My boyfriend is 4 years younger than me and we've never had any problems. And my mum is 7 years younger than my dad :)
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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6 Nov 06
age is just a number,
I was with my ex partner for 14 years and he was 14 years older than me.
my currant b/f is 4 years younger than me.
It is the person that count, do they make you happy? Do they make you smile? Do you enjoy your time that you spend together?
If you answer yes to these questions than great, but these are the questions that you should be asking yourself and really not worrying about the age, You are going out with her because you like her, Your not going out with her becuase of her age.
Go for it and i wish you good luck
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@katabongaz (537)
• Mexico
5 Nov 06
As long as your happy thats all that matters. You are the only one who can live your life and if you are both happy then great. I dont think age matters at all. Just go with your heart if it feels right go for it. :)
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@protectiva (687)
• United States
29 Nov 06
yeah, 28 and 33 is not a big age difference really. And if your son is happy and the woman treats him well, I say good for them!
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@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
6 Nov 06
Alright, good for you. I don't think that's a huge age difference, unless it bothers you that much. If you really like her and enjoy being with her that's all that really matters....:)
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I don't think that is such a huge age difference. It depends on the maturity of the man, of course, but it doesn't seem like it would be a problem. 8 years is a huge difference if you're talking of an 18 year old and a 26 year old, because they are at different developmental stages. The older we get, the less age matters, really. As long as the couple have interests in common and can communicate and relate to each other effectively, what's the difference?
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