Am i gay because i've never been in love?

Hi xboxboy.I think it does not mean you are gay.Especially if you dont have any desire to be with a male.You are fine.The right time will come.

No, I think you need to spend less time playing on x-box and more time socialising. all the best urban

You could be but my guess is that you are only 16 and you have plenty of time! No matter what you will find the right person one day! xxx

it is not like that if you re maintaing distance not means that you r --- you dont have good relation with any girl from child hood so ur thoughts not going on girls see some that kind of movies u wil become normal dont dipress

no my friend it doesnt mean your gay as long as you arent interested in guys in a certain way then you are fine.you are still young and just because you havent been in love yet doesnt mean your gay.your time will come and that day that you do fall head over heels in love,it will be the most memorible time of your life and your heart will know if its love or not.dont rush it,it will come to you when you least expect it,love is a beautiful thing to experience but you dont want to rush into it,let it come to you.wish you the best of luck.pattie

I think you have still a lot of time to get girlfriend.Maybe you just didn't have opportunity yet to find a right person.wait a little bit and you will see.

i dont think that means that you are gay. there is a lot more to being gay that never having been in love with a girl. maybe its just that you havent found the right girl yet. i dont think you should worry about it so much. you'll fall in love someday. you said that you've never truly 'wanted' a girl, but have you ever truly 'wanted' a guy?

I don't think it makes you gay. You just haven't found the right girl yet. Give it time and I'm sure you'll find someone. Even if you were gay, there would be nothing wrong with that either.:)

no, you are not gay.. you have not found your match yet.. don't think about it.. you will be shock one day when you will meet the person :D take care

I don't think so. Being gay isn't about not falling in love at a certain age. Maybe you still haven't had the opportunity to find someone. If you aren't attracted in a girl, aren't interested in ANY girls then maybe you haven't really gotten to know a girl. I don't like every boy I meet on the street, that doesn't mean I'm into girls :)

Nothing is wrong with you. Furthermore, you are young and have all the time in the world. Dont worry.

You're only 16 aren't you? I am in love now for the first time and it happened when i was 20 so i don't think you have anything to worry about. Also, have you ever found a guy sexually attractive? If not then i doubt you are gay :-)

No, I don't believe you are a gay just because you never fall in love yet. I am sure that there's someone for you but she might not come yet in your life. Likewise, you are still too young and one day you will just be amazed that you'll meet your girl in a way you never thought will be. Just don't rush yourself to it. Nothing to hurry.

Not falling head over heels for a young lady yet does not mean you are gay. Some people are late bloomers. What may be more like it is that you are actually "right on time" and friends around you feel pushed to pursue relationships way earlier than they are really ready to, which makes you feel like a late bloomer among everyone else. I would just continue to pursue your interests, and focus on school so you can get where you need to go afterwards. I know it doesn't seem that way, but in reality, a large amount of people don't "fall in love" until they are in college or later though they have noted/appreciated the intelligence, beauty, or kindness of a girl before. I would focus on establishing friendships with girls - even if you are "friends as a group" and not necessarily best buds one on one. It just makes things easier later on when you do start to feel strong feelings for a girl - some guys who have a crush on a girl just creep them out if they are too nervous to talk to them. (i speak from experience - its really weird when a guy can't even say hello to you - you either think they don't really know anything about you or care or you wonder if they are "all there.") And afterall strong feelings sometimes don't start until you get to know a young lady and all the other good stuff about her. So - no, I don't think you are gay if you fancy girls, but aren't a pile of raging hormones over them at 16.

Oisszt..your only 16 dear so you are in the process of getting into it. Why you say so and worried that feel you are a gay? Did you feel something that you attracted to a guy that same or more than as you attracted to a girl? You will know that in yourself boy. :)

no, u are young . it is good not to rush things. at your age you shoulc just be hanging out with friends and doing your school work. You dont want to grow up to fast. Trust me/