How will you raise your kid without experiencing what you been through?

i believe that we can avoid that things but we cannot predict what's their future because in fact, in ourselves we don't know the things that will happen to us, we don't have predictions what kind of problems that we had..yes i agree, that we need to have faith to the Lord and maybe for our children we need to be open for them, asking what are their problems so that it will not lead into a big one..

It is easier to produce a child than raising one. The situation what I had undergone as a child is entirely different than what my son is now undergoing. He is a single child so he needs the company of other children, whereas when I was born, there were 8 other family members to take care of me. A bit of psychology need to be studied and understood by parents in handling the children and raising them.