if conflict arise between you and your partner, how will you solve it?

I always try to talk it out..! No matter what big conflict it may be I always try my level best to talk to it out. But my partner really find to hard to follow such theory of mine. He takes things easily over his heart and tend to share it with no one..!! And naturally he end up behaving starnge and bad. I always tell him to say every thing on my face itself..!! No need to keep things in his heart!! Its better to talk and solve things up rather than keeping it in heart and ending up to a break up ..! I have faced it twice in my realtionship. BUt NOw he is changing up and he says every thing to me straight away..!! That is good. :)

i agree that is truly the right thing to do to settle conflicts and arguments... we must all lower our pride and make amends. it is not easy to do so... but i think it is really worth it if we love our partner so much. we must all compromise in every way we can to make things work. if we really want things to work we can be really persistent to make it work right? first maybe find out the root of the conflict ( the problem ) and then think about what you can do to avoid these problems.. talk about it and stuff because that's what i do... and i guess maybe it works... (n_n)

Yeah, having arguments or conflicts with your partner is just normal in a relationship or even in marriage. I guess, to solve a problem, the two have to keep their cool down. I don't think problems can be solved if two hot heads clash at once.. It is better if one is cool and calm and the other is hot-headed. All it needs is some understanding. Even do we both have different opinions or different sides of the story, we have to consider to treat each other with respect. Also, when problem arises.. the best way to solve it is through communication and confrontation but in a very respective manner... like talking to each other in a calm way.. ",) best of luck!

Well,I think its good not to go for any conflict. I think its better to keep quite and ignored the matter for which the conflict arise.I don't go for any conflict with my patner.I just keep quite and ignored it.I think it is better to solve the problem.

Hi,maybe my means are common ,but i want to share with u.i will leave sometime to for us to cool down,then i go to make her happy by buying things her like ,good food is need ,etc.when she is happy,we will find the cause ,if it is important.but when it is just a small case, i will take on .because i am a man