love is life???
By Neha211985
@neha211985 (779)
India
October 6, 2007 5:50am CST
Hi friends ,
what u think love is life or love is the part of life ?
i want to share an experience with you one of my frnd loves a girl more then his life as he says . That girl is suffring from cancer n she is in last stage she also loves my frnd but she always tell him to forget her. they know each other from 7 years. now my friend is searching another girlfrnd he says that he just want to forget her so that when she die he dnt feel hurted n he is flirting with many girls his girlfriend know all this things.she is not saying anything but dnt she feel hurted. do you think he is right n if love is life then does he love her. what you think give me ans.
10 responses
@sumitsonu (598)
• India
6 Oct 07
your firend should be wioth the girl ..because love truly can be more than life for someone...as it is in my case...i love a girl who is elder to me ..but i love her like hell ..knowing that i can never have her ..but still i am her best friend...and i will never give it up....for me nothing is more important than her
@sumitsonu (598)
• India
7 Oct 07
yeah i shd but u know ..i love her so much ..but we are very very gud frnds ...and i think that matters more for me ..our frndship ..is such that love seems to be very small in my case
@Cindy405777 (300)
• China
18 Dec 07
I don't think your friend very love that girl ! But i agrre with him to flirt othe girls , because he is still live , he must love and shuould company others to through all happy and sad things, i think !
@nickybeit (41)
• India
7 Oct 07
love is life 4 those who consider love s the cause for us to exist in this world.. it s part of life who consider it as time pass.
i belong to first category
@shak143 (1280)
• India
7 Oct 07
hi neha21985 as per love is part of life.past i think that love is life but after that i realized that now a days ther eis no real love lefted behind evey thing became artificial and i change my belife that love is not life but it just a part.what the films and others are saying is false..........
what he is doing is right.
@anantvyas2306 (155)
• India
7 Oct 07
hi Neha,
Since he's flirting with other,I don't think he's going to get a True love in future.He just to have fun so that in that fun,he can forget her.If he truly loves her,it won't be that easy to forget her.And moreover, he seems to be selfish here.He's not understanding the pain she's going through,instead he's preparing for his pain which he'll be having after her.That's not fair and for me its not at all love.
Also,For me,Love is part of life as other things.You can give it but you can't expect to have it back.I can't call it life as if it so,It will become necessity and without it you'll die.And its not guaranteed that you'll have it.So it can't be life.But its my perception.Anyone can have different point.
-AV
@weehihi (132)
• Philippines
7 Oct 07
maybe he really loves her in some ways but what he's doing is not quite right..it's unfair to the girl he's flirting with..besides, he's only fooling himself into thinking that the hurt he's feeling right now will fade right away if he fools around other women..the hurt will always be there..he just have to deal with it one day at a time..deal with it reasonably that is..that's part of life..he just have to remember that when God closes a door, He always opens a window..he just needs to be strong for himself as well as her dying girlfriend. if i were him, i'd stay by my girlfriend til the end of her days and make it memorable to both of us.there's not much time left for the girl, might as well make it the most for her..what he's doing is just adding hurt to his girlfriend..if he truly loves her, he'll stay by her til the end.. ;p and not only think of himself, of being hurt after she left..
@dreamstone (129)
• China
6 Oct 07
yes,i think so.love is important in life.the story that your friend is very affecting,i have heard many storys as that,so i think that is true.many times i think that,if i and my girlfriend in danger,i will save her use my life.
so,belive love,belive your lover,love your family,love your parents.
good luck in myloting.
have a good time.
@xeminemkax (14)
•
6 Oct 07
Dude, love, sometimes can become YOUR LIFE. Love is an unreal fealing, it's better than life... Im sorry that that happened, but i think the dude was wrong... And if it would be me, i wouldnt date a girl in 1-2, meybe 3 years...