Do you think that corporal punishment should be banned from schools? and why?
By magnet
@magnet (2087)
United States
October 6, 2007 7:10am CST
What do you think of children being spanked in schools? There are some schools that will allow children to be spanked by the principal with the parent's permission. If a child constantly misbehaves in school the principal will call the parent and tell the parent that they need permission to spank your child. Would you allow school authority to spank your child? I don't think it should be banned from the schools since they will not do it without the parent's consent. I personally do not want anyone spanking my child. I would rather decide how I will punish my child for his behavior.
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@magnet (2087)
• United States
6 Oct 07
From my understanding the child is told to report to the principal's office and the principal will call the parent and ask permission to spank. The principal will not spank the child in front of his classmates but in the office area. I don't know about the lasting impact on the child thing. I was paddled in the 3rd grade because my teacher was angry at me because she read my homework and did not like what I wrote. She did not handle that incident the way that she was suppose to, but it did not have a lasting impact on me.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
8 Oct 07
The lasting impact that I had as a child was verbal abuse from my 1st grade teacher.She really hurt my self-esteem when I was small and it took me years to get over it and gain my self-esteem back. I took the abuse for half the school year and I told my Mother about it and when she went to the school it all stopped. The teacher left me alone. You really gave me something to think about. I changed my mind. I don't want anyone spanking my child at school.
@sandgroper1 (629)
• Australia
6 Oct 07
I personally dont have a problem with it, my partner and i and both of my brothers all got the cane when we were at school for one reason or another (them more than me). None of us believe that we have any lasting problems with it and would be happy for our children to be given the cane providing it is warranted and with our consent like we were as kids.
I think alot of the disrespect and problems with kids today is that they lack BASIC disipline, i dont believe that it's ok to " beat or bruise " your kids but i dont have a problem with the occasional backside paddling/slapping to keep them in line.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
6 Oct 07
Since I am at home during the day while my child is at school I would rather go to the school to discipline him instead of the principal. If I was unavailable to go to the school to get him because of work I might decide to let the school handle it depending on what happened at school. My husband does not have a problem with spankings at school. They flip cards at his school and if they get an orange card that's when the school will contact the parents. My child is just in the kindergarden and right now he respects adults so I don't think I am going to have to worry about getting any calls any time soon.
@cosmopolitan (1263)
• India
7 Oct 07
Hi magnet if you spare the rod you will be spoiling your child.A parent sending his or her child to school or the child itself gives an implied consent to the school authorities to subject itself to the reasonable corporal punishment given by the authorities for correction in accordance with the school discipline.A person goes to school for not only gaining knowledge of the physical world but also for the overall development of his personality.If the child behaves dissidently to the school laws and discipline there is an inherent responsibility invested with the school authorities to correct the child by giving reasonable corporal punishment.I emphasise the word reasonable.Only when this reasonableness exceeds the limit it become unreasonable and as you said it may make a lasting impact on the child which is detrimental to its emotional quotient.Kindly excuse me for my english
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
13 Jan 08
Yes, I am against to corporal punishment in school and we have a law here prohibiting a teacher or any school head to punish a children inside the school. And it have a lot of side effect specially in their emotional feeling.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
7 Oct 07
I know that some private schools still spank children, but I was not aware of it being allowed at any other school. I do not have any children, but I thought that it was illegal for parents in the United States to spank their children.
If it is illegal for thier parents to do it, why would it be okay for a teacher or principal to do it. The way I see it, the teacher or whomever can call me and tell me what my child has done. But, I do not want someone who is not related to my child by blood, putting their hands on them. If I think that my child should be punished, I or the father will do it.
There are a lot of different things to consider when you are allowing someone to discipline your child. How hard are they being hit, for how long, with what, and where are you hitting them at? It is too easy to cross over into abuse and the child not realize that they are really being abused.
So, to avoid all of that confusion, I would say, do not put your hands on my child for any reason at all. That way, there is no confusion.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
7 Oct 07
As far as I know in NC it is allowed in some schools but not all schools. It depends on the school district. I've never heard anything about it being illegal for parents in the US to spank their children. I know it is illegal to abuse but I've never heard anything about it being illegal to spank. My cousin is a lawyer so I'm going to ask her about that one. I understand what you are saying. If I felt like my child was going to be abused there is no way I would let anyone put their hands on my child. I will need to look into the guidelines of the punishment. I don't think that the Principal will abuse, but I can't really assume anything.
@crochetmehappy (143)
• United States
14 Oct 07
Where we live there is no spanking in schools whatsoever so they wouldn't even call you to ask permission to do it, it just isn't done. Honestly I think the lack of effective punishment is causing a lot of problems. Most of the schools here just do an out of school suspension which is like a get out of jail free card for most of these kids.
I don't want anyone spanking our children either but it seems to me that there just aren't many effective methods to correct children these days.
@gexi1987 (329)
• China
6 Oct 07
well friend.actually,i agreed with the punishment to children with the parents' permission and with supervising from authority to protect it from becoming a spiritual torment.in my culture,it's so common to commit limited corporal punishment to teach the children what they have done will have consequence.so i can really understand that.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
7 Oct 07
I dont want other people spanking my children even if they would ask my permission, i would still not allow it. I would want to do the spanking if ever. School should find other ways of disciplining the students.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
6 Oct 07
Corporal Punishment went out of style with the horse and buggy. Psychology is in! Sit your child down and Dialogue. Make a deal!
Love and Compassion cannot be taught with Violence and Pain.
What this world needs is Love, Sweet Love!
@damitajoey (99)
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6 Oct 07
Nope, children tend to become ill mannered and undisciplined to their elders if they are not spanked. I have experienced both sides and have decided on my decision. In Africa children are spanked with or without parent consention but in my school here in England they are not. I hate to see when students insult of make fun of some of my teachers. They find it funny but the teachers only shout about it although I notice most of them look angry and feel like crying and only say they'll call their parents which they do not. Children should be disciplined both at home and school so says the Bible. But I cant choose for you, you have your decision to make, but children tend to rebel when they become teenagers which makes it difficult to be controlled by their parents most especially those who havent been disciplined since they were kids.
@leondias1987 (91)
• India
7 Oct 07
Frankly, I believe in the age old saying, spare the rod and spoil the child ! Corporal punishment is justified in certain cases. While i do not consider banning it from schools, at the same time I dont really justify using it unless it is really justified. If the school authorities spank my child with good reason there is absolutely no reason why I would object. After all if my child gets corrected and learns to become a good human being what do I have to lose ?
@jiangli (363)
• China
6 Oct 07
I come from china !In china,the corporal punishment is normal in some degreed!especially to naught children!In my elementary school,Igot the corporal punishment because of a prank!