what if you will fall in-love with your friend?

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Your situation is really hard, but I think you've got to face your fears. You try confessing your love for her in the best way that you can. Because I believe that keeping the love you have for someone is like poison. It will slowly eat you up inside. And hiding in a friendship full of pretention is not healthy too. In life, we really need to risk and gamble in order for us to be fulfilled. Find the courage to let your friend know how much you love her (who knows, she also feels the same way too). But if ever it wouldn't work that way, accept it with open arms. Don't care if you'll get broken hearted, because as they say "it takes a broken heart to find true love". I hope I was able to enlighten your mind and heart. Once again, thanks and may you find the right person for you in due time:-)

thanks fr ur concern ..but some time back i had told her that i cannot fall in love becoz my family wont allow that ...u know i m frm an indian family ....and same is her case...and we cant go against our parents ...so wht is the use of love ..if we cant b together ..atleast we r together as frnds na ..tht is enough fr me...i can stay whole life like this being her frnd ..i think she will accept f i tell ..but i dnt want to hurt her ..becoz thn she will get depressed ,,..as there is no wany out...i mdestined to love her and hide my feelings

Ponder on this.. when people wanted to be together it means that they love each other. But when two people wanted to be just friends, it means that they love each other so much that there's no need for a commitment to stay.

You have shared a very nice story. I would say that both of you are lucky enough to have each other. Even if I don't know you in person, I would say that your love could surely last long, beyond forever I guess. Why I said so? It is because I really believe that friendship is the greatest foundation of love. I'm so jealous of you for marrying your best friend. That is actually my greatest dream in life, to marry someone so close to me, someone whom I have build a very strong friendship with. I also believe that the happiest person has three things.. a best friend, a true love, and a true love who is their best friend. I salute you, both of you are indeed so lucky!

yes.. Life is short. so watever we do, we go all out.. Because some things dun have a u-turn to do it again.. That's y, watever we do, we are responsible for it and no regrets.. Especially in love, as we may not be the only one loving the guy/gal.. So it's important to make known our feelings for them ;)

You are a very courageous person. Yes, you should confess your feelings because who knows, that someone do feel the same way too. And we only live once, so as much as possible, we should live it to its fullest so that we won't end up regreting.

Precisely dude! Friendship is the basic foundation of love because in friendship, you get to know more about each other and learn to accept each other despite of all the flaws and differences. And eventually, love then grows!

Well, I do respect your opinion. Each one of us are unique and do express ourselves in our own ways. And you might be the shy type. I know how hard it is to confess your feelings towards someone, especially for girls. It feels so awkward for girls to do the first move especially in our country wherein most people are so conservative. They would consider the aggressive type of girl as cheap for doing the first move. But I don't really see it that way. It is just a matter of guts or confidence. Who knows, that person might feel the same way too but too just coward to confess it.

You're absolutely right. We should let the love begin rather than hide our love in a friendship full of pretentions. Being true is at times risky, but since we only live once, then I believe that we should be true to everyone and accept whatever consequences!

Exactly, for we cannot simply dictate our hearts("v")

Nice thought:-) You're really courageous enough to do such!