i got denied

Hi, first of all, welcome to myLot. As far as my concern, sometimes the people that you have tried to add are busy or offline. When you try to add a friend, there will be a pending request that is sent to them, and they will be the one to decide whether they will approve it or not. It takes time to be approved especially if they are offline for longer periods of time. Have a nice day and God speed!

It could be for a few reasons...they haven't been online, they feel they have too many friends, they pick their friends by interests and yours don't match theirs or they pick them by age or where they live. Whatever the reason I wouldn't take it personally.

Just wondering....did you get denied or have they not responded either way? If they haven't responded either way they probably have not been on the site for a little while and will get to it when they come back. If they denied you, there are so many different reasons that it really doesn't matter....Just don't take it personally and keep trying. :)