Do you ever blamed someone or God, due to your problem or miserable life?
By leha1512
@leha1512 (81)
Brunei Darussalam
October 8, 2007 2:24am CST
We cannot run away from a problem and mistake. Actually those are make you more mature to carry on this life. But sometimes even me, I am not too strong to handle the problem. I ever blamed God due to my miserable life. It was the stupid thing that I ever done. Sometimes when I think back the problem that I face now, It was not from a God. It is from my stupid mistake. I ever blamed myself and my husband for this stuation. It is my weakness, maybe. If you, do ever blamed someone or God, if you have a problem or your life is miserable? Share with me? Good luck
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17 responses
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
8 Oct 07
I belive that whatever bad is happpening with me is only because of me..!!
Whenever I analyse things in past it always conculdes that it is only me who is reponsible for the present..!!
SO I never blamed any one for anything happend to me..!! I always take all the charges over me..!!
And not only mine...but other's also.
But some times yes I did complain to GOD ...why he is doing all thins to me why only me..??
I ask him to atleast give me that strenght so that I can bear all this on my own...!!
:)
@summer218 (197)
• United States
8 Oct 07
The ONLY way we will learn and not repeat mistakes in our journey in life, is to accept resposibility for whatever it is that's happening to us. We really do create our world. Every decision we make defines the outcome of our life. We have to be very careful and weigh all of our options before choosing. God is there to guide and help us, but ultimately our fate lies in our hands. I wish all of you the best.
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@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
yeah i did, i have blamed him for a lot of reasons but i realized that it was me who done my problem so i shouldnt blame him.. Life is what we make of it.. no matter how weak we are, we shouldnt blame, we are still the one who decide for our own selves. He is there to guide us.. but if we chooses the wrong way he cant do anything about but hes always there waiting for us to change. he is always waiting for us to ask forgiveness.. he never closed his heart for us... so never blame him in what we did... he is really good and he is our saviour..
@southeastasian (102)
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
In my case I also do that sometimes... I mean lets not be phony about it. Its man's nature to blame others about the things happening in their life. But the what is important is that at the end of the day you learn from it and make amendments. In my case I've learned how to channel those negative elements brought by my mistakes into possitive. In the case that you blame God about what happened I think its natural co'z there are really situation some situation like you are not in control of like nature calls or an event accidentally happened. Its ok to blame him but be in a positive way not to put your life in despare but search for the purpose why he did it to you. Its always nice to have other things aside from looking into the fact that its God's fault. Learn how to move on and be positive
@southeastasian (102)
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
In my case I also do that sometimes... I mean lets not be phony about it. Its mans nature to blame others about the things happening in their life. But the what is important is later on you learn from it and make amendments. In my case I've learned how to channel those negative elements brought by my mistakes into possitive. In the case that you blame God about what happened I think its natural coz there are really situation some situation like you are not in control of like nature calls or an event accidentally happened. Its ok to blame him but be in a positive way not to put your life in despare but search for the purpose why he did it to you. Its always nice to have other things aside from looking into the fact that its God's fault. Learn how to move on and be positive
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
9 Oct 07
i used to do it when i was younger. i really try to blame someone or something and yes before i even include god for my misery. but as i come to age, i realized this mistake is pointless becasue i am always responsible for my action and that's why my belief change whenever i meet trials or adversary. try to realize in yourself that you are responsible for your action and maybe your attitude may change. good day.
@Lbrichie (4)
• United States
9 Oct 07
Yeah we all do this I think we all dont admit but I be lieve we all do sometimes its hard too point your finger back at yourself. I do it everytime i look back at decisions my parents made when i was young and think how diff. everything would be if they did things diff. But i try too tell myself everything has its reasons. SO it is what it is.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
I never blamed anyone nor God for my misfortunes in life, I have deep respect for everyone. I believe that we are masters of our own faith, we are the ones responsible of creating our destiny. Though there are times that I come across accidents, I only blame myslef on each consequences I suffer.
It is always, no one to be blamed but only US..
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Oct 07
I've never blamed my Gods for my life.
I have blamed other people, but that's because most of my early misery came from abuse, and thus it WAS the fault of the people who abused me. I get angry when people try to make up ways in which my painful early years could have been my own fault, when it clearly was the fault of my abusers.
True, I have made a few of my own mistakes over the years, and I'm quite quick to own up to those. But I won't take the blame for what other people have done to me.
@smurfettewv (359)
• United States
8 Oct 07
I think all humans have blamed someopne at one time or another for their life and yes Im sure we all have blamed God . As I have gotten older you become alittle more wise and realise that God is not author of sickness or disease and he doesn't want us to suffer we as Man choose our paths it is called freewill something God gave us, in that freewill we affect others, strangers, family, etc... like a ripple affect.This was a good topic btw interesting.
@resuab (265)
• United States
8 Oct 07
not much really, because my problems are my own, i am the cause of them, unless they are directly related to something or someone else there is no reason for me to blame them. also, if this problem has nothing to do with pure chance or luck or whatever u want to call it, then there is also no reason to blame it on god or any other supernatural being. so yea, thats my opinion.
@vissy10 (82)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
Hi. I honestly don't blame God for whatever happens in my life. I don't question Him "why". But I do question Him "how". How will I solve the problem or how can I make things better. I don't blame God for He doesn't do things for me. I should be the only one responsible for my own actions, not anybody else.
@dirtmcgirt (22)
• United States
9 Oct 07
Like some other people have said its a natural thing to try to blame your problems on other people but when you can get out of that you learn a lot more from you problems and end up living a better life.
@yinnana (3)
• China
8 Oct 07
i have a good character,never blame someone or god,i think that everyone have their difficult problem and temper,so good temper person will smile to the miserable life,bad one will see everything badness,and effect their temper,so they may blame their friends or their relatives.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
8 Oct 07
Previously i was suppose to blame on GOD and others if i faced problems.That why iam the only.Thinking that iam the only person suffering but now i realised that problems will makes you hard and every problem will teach you a lesson and helps you to lead a better life than what you are getting till now.And every thing is for your best only.
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
8 Oct 07
No, why should I blame someone els for my own mistake. I take it and learn from it and try not doing the same again. It is not others fault if you make a mistake. It is my own, It was my chose to do what I did do. But I do not blame my self for my mistake. I rather learn from instead.
Have a nice monday.