Career or Love?Which COmes first?

In life, we can't have everything we want for. There is always something to sacrifice in favor of something. Choosing between career or love depends on the priorities of a person. If a person is career-oriented and has dream of going up in the corporate ladder, then he choose career over love. However, if the guy is committed on a serious relationship already, then he might choose love over career. I would say that the ideal situation would be to find the right balance between the two. If the girl is secured in the relationship already and uderstanding enough to let her man go for the opportunity for his career growth, she will also benefit from it the end because it will also be for their future. It will also mean a long distance realtionship for them. But if they really love each other and will remain faithful to each other, distance will not be a problem.

Well, if he can find a decent job there and he's happy with that, I don't see any problem. Being far from your loved one is tough. I understand his decision in moving to the city where his gf lives. ;-D But if he can't find a decent job there, then it'd be best for him to move. All in all, just let him find his own way. IMO you've done enough in telling him to consider all the factors before moving to that city. If he still insists on doing it, all you can do is support him. :-D

I think it varies from person to person. The priority also depends on individual. I would have advised same as you to the friend to look after career first. First he need a job. After that all will look greener, be it love or life. If one doesnot have a very good career, after some time these love and all will disappear. But may be he has got his own views and priorities.

you're right with your advice. he is just starting in his career so he should give it importance. but I'm not saying that his gf is not important. of course she's important too. but since they have been in a relationship for so long, I think the gf would also want her bf to develop his career. career growth is important too in a relationship because it gives confidence to a person and thus, lessening incidence of misunderstandings over jealousy. and besides, if their love is true, then it can wait. and developing his career is not only for himself, its also for his gf, like a way of preparing for their future. ^__^

Hi Anan,You are not wrong. Coz u are his friend, just gave him good advice. Career and love are both important, which comes first, it depends.Look, your friend thinks love is important. you should be happy for him. He loves his GF so much,he's willing for her to suck in difficulties. So i think you'd better to give him more courage to get over difficulties. You are friends right, and i think you love each other and trust each other. Now, Bless him, I think he will be very very happy to make friends with you. Cheerful

hi anant, anant love for me love is important but not in the cost of career. n in this case im lucky becoz my love n career both r related 2 each other. dear one thing i want to ask one day ur love is in one side and ur career is in other side what ur going to choose. ans me plz

Girl friend will be there, But one has to secure his career. That is the main thing to do. If he doesnt have a good job girlfriend won't be with him. Try to understand him.

Well first off I guess it all depends on what kind of person you might be. You have to figure out what makes you happier then go from there. For me I love money and can never have enough of it and up till 3 years ago money was the most important thing to me until I met my last girlfriend. After meeting her and her 3 kids I soon found that love is harder to find then making money ever was for me. Jobs can come and go by the hundreds but as for finding that one true love well thats a whole other story.

career is more important because the chance is not come to you for twice and love will find u if have great position on your job and than u will have a lot of money and than love will come to u

If you are a practical person, then you must go for CAREER first. On the other side of the rope, if your priority in life is your emotional needs, then settle for your loved-one above your career. It is actually a matter of one's priorities in life. In my situation, love scenes in my life seems to be over. So if ever I am into such situation, I really know what to choose and that is CAREER anyway, love could always wait ("v")

When you are teen its love but when you become adult its career.