When do you plan to have a baby?
By lindawong
@lindawong (196)
China
October 27, 2006 9:11pm CST
my husband and I am 27 years old.we got married two years ago.but we havn't a baby now.we don't want a baby now,since we want to enjoy life as soon as possible.we plan to have a baby with 30-32 year old.but our friends don't agree with us,they who had baby said that baby can bring you happiness which you can not find from others.i think so,but he also bring much trouble,reave some sleep.how about your idea?
2 responses
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Well, I always planned on having children young. Not 22 and unmarried necessarily, but it all worked out. We are happily married, a happy family, and my daughter means the world to me. Would I prefer her to not wake up at four o'clock in the morning screaming for no reason? Well, yes. But really, I can't imagine life without her. Especially since my husband is in the Navy, and if I didn't have her, I would just be all alone. But that is just my situation.
Also, keep in mind that the older you get, the more difficult it is to get pregnant, and the higher the risks are of fetal abnormalities. I have some family who got pregnant in their mid and late 30s, and lost or almost lost them. I don't mean to guilt or anything, but it is a consideration to make. Do some research into it.
