Finally I know it now.....
By swetha2rani
@swetha2rani (341)
India
October 9, 2007 10:38pm CST
I went ahead and had my sonograph test done and they said i am having a baby boy. it is soooo exciting and i am looking forward for him. Any suggestions in regard to baby care or the extra carefulness that I need to develop plzz provide.
1 response
@MissTLinne (14)
• United States
11 Oct 07
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! Boys are so much fun, but way different from girls. I wouldn't trade mine for the world.
Maintain a healthy pregnancy and when he's born don't forget to care for yourself. It's all to easy to focus 100% of your attention on everything else but yourself. Schedule a massage or pedicure for after he is born. It might sound like a strange thing to do, but you will appreciate it afterwards. You will find an amazing sense of rejuvenation.
Congrats again!
@swetha2rani (341)
• India
11 Oct 07
Thank u so much for the advice. Yeah I too heard many saying that one keeps thinking about the baby more and ignores self, later repent for not taking care of oneself. I would surely strike a balance.
@MissTLinne (14)
• United States
11 Oct 07
I am avid about getting my friends a certificate for a massage, manicure, pedicure, anything along those lines to give as a gift as opposed to diapers or things of that nature. I learned how important I was in the equation of parenting and cherished that gift from my friend more than any other I could have received.
Even now, with my son at three, I remind myself to take that time every week, if possible, for me. It helps on all levels, including my relationship with my other half. When I go a few weeks without, it becomes apparent that this mom needs so well deserved her time. ;)
