When delema comes in your way what will you do?

Follow your heart. Only you can decide what is right for you.

I am probably the worst person to answer this one but ill give it a try. What i do is try to weigh out the pros and cons, see how it effects my family, friends and myself. And i try to go with my gut instinct the most, which is often wrong (must be the pizza that disrupts it lol). But hey in the end, you`ll get what ya need and hopefully what you want.

I can relate to you absolutely as recently even I got an opportunity of my life time in the form of a new job with 150% hike in my salary and profile as well. But it expected me to leave my parent and love ones behind and after much thinking I let it go. Its you who have to decide what is more important for you and you very well know that you are making a right decision when you chose the ones who are most important to you. But provided you dont regret for it later. So, dont look back and opportunity will knock your gate second time very soon.

If I where in your position then I would have made one thing for sure that atleast have a degree in my hand. Graduation is must at this level. If even that wasn't possible then I will always go with working for my family..!! BUt will always try my level best to study also. Becasue where there is a will there is always a way!! If I can I would even stay up half of the night to study. Because after a certain age human can't study any more(expcetions are always there) But this is my view. So I would try my level best to utilise every time I have. :)

Ohhh no!!! I feel bad about everything and your situation. You are right you are in the very tough decision. We all knew that life is a choice. And we need to sacrifice either. Its between mind and heart. But dont you know that everything has a reason. All i can say is ask God guidance. And ask your family point of views and how can they help you to decide such decision. Me, i have a lot of problems too. Which i need to decide to work abroad to have a good life and have a big salary in exchange of leaving my kids without a father and mother's love since i am separated. No matter how i tried to think a million times, i cant ever leave my kids in exchange a lot of money and good future. So i work hard and find part time jobs plus my family who is always there to guide me and help at the same time. Dont you know that Education has no age limit? But you child needs to eat and to live... So the decision is still in your hand...Okay???

The best way to get over a dilemma is to think hard and think individually. When we hear opinions from our friends, there will be varying opinions and that is only going add up to the dilemma. I always sit alone in dark and think about the situation and i have always been successful in getting over the dilemma by that way.

When i am experiencing a dilemma I pray a lot and harder. I deeply believes in the power of prayer. i had overcame a lot of crisis in my life only because of praying. It is my weapon in getting out of dilemma or trials.