Whom to choose as a roommate,your x-friend or a stranger????
By nidhi_bansal
@nidhi_bansal (106)
India
October 10, 2007 2:04am CST
I have only one friend among various candidates in company,but i dont like her now,i dont like spending time with her,i dont like her habbits.Same is the case with her,but we talk with each other normally.She was also my roommate for 4 years.But now should i choose a stranger or my this friend to live with?What you people think?
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3 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Oct 07
I guess that depends on the extent to which you trust strangers. I'm too paranoid to be able to live with a stranger. The one time when I was forced to do so (in college) I drove her crazy because I was always so paranoid, and she couldn't deal with it. She automatically expected me to trust her because some random system had decided we were going to be roommates, and I just freaked out all the time because she was always around, and I felt like I was in danger 24/7.
I suppose for a normal person (ie not crazy like me) it wouldn't be a big deal to live with a stranger. But I would pick an ex-friend over a stranger, because there had to be some reason you decided to be that person's friend in the first place!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Oct 07
it depends on how much you have problem with your ex- friend or stranger.
In choosing room mates, most of the time we have no choice but to live with starngers.
I had this experience as i was working in a different city.
But every time i found they may have some peculiar habits, i was good in adjusting.
There can be all with habits that you don't like, be it stranger or friend.
So chose according to your comfort.
@errielle (442)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
if I were to choose, i'd have a stranger. why? because it will be more easy to adjust to someone you don't know. you have start from the beginning-- getting to know the person.And if you don't like the person,since you're not friends,you may ignore the person without really feeling uncomfortable.
thanks