Anyone's Inner beauty ever attracted you??
By stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
India
October 10, 2007 2:39am CST
People always say that physical beauty does not hold much importance, its the inner beauty that matters!!
I too belive in that very well.
And I mostly get attracted to those people who are beautiful from inside but sometimes its also OK to make some handsome boyfriends...wink wink :D
Hey people I want to know that did you ever get attracted to someone's inner beauty rather than just slipping off by someone's first look only!!!
You ever valued anyone's inner beauty first!!
Please be honest.
:)
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12 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 07
Dear Stella
ur both statements are right
well i believe that physical beauty is important as well, as physical beauty attract person and when u stay with some one then his/her inner beauty reveal and make u stay with him/her and result in friendship or marriage.
As far as only inner beauty is concern, its only possible if u know that person through any refence , noted him/her, observe him/her and then think and make ur mind to have serious relation with him/her
My dear physical beauty is their to vanish with passage of time while inner beauty increses with passage of time, but i believe both are important
i am not saying that physical beauty mean stunning beauty, but average, i hope u understand my point
tae care
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
10 Oct 07
I did understand you zahir..!!
You know you said everything except answering my question..!!..lol
Next time try to answer the question dude..!!
:)
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 07
Ha Ha Ha, Stella, Thanks for response, well i answer ur question, i told u that i believe in both, to me both are important i mean physical apperance(not stunning beauty) and inner beauty. Personality of ONE is not complete with out both.
So i go for the blend of both and thats was my answer to u my dear
and hey its , OK, no neeed to say sorry about name, as i understand that TYPOGRAPHICAL errors. SPELLING errors are there when u r typing fast. take care
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Oct 07
For me inner beauty carries more importance than the outward beauty. If my friends are not beautiful from inside, I just cannot carry on my relationship with them. If they are good at heart, their outward appearance does not matter to me. And those who are my friends list are really very good at heart. I value honesty and sincerity of a person very much. And while interacting with a person, how honest she or he is.
Good Post indeed!
Have a nice day!
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Oct 07
please read 'are on my frineds' list' in place of 'are my friends list'
And
Pl. read this again...'and while interacting with a person, I come to know through his/her behaviour, how honest she or he is.
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@kannmani (361)
• India
29 Jan 08
inner beauty is the most important rather then the outer beauty, good heart will be remembered always. but the beauty in the face will be considered for sometime, as time goes the beauty of the face will also go off. meanwhile if it is with the inner beauty you will be remembered always
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@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
10 Oct 07
It is said that when you are attracted by some one then it means that you are mostly affected by inner and outer both the characteristics, though you are unaware about his or her inner worthiness!
What ever but this has a significance because every one has AURA around him / her and it always touches the person comes in contact!
This is true for our AURA also! It is now well known that what ever inner characteristics you have are reflected in your Aura Body and it is affecting your moves, relations, friends, relatives and even your surroundings also!
But to grasp the inner beauty is little different regarding the reality and its inner image! Few persons have sixth sense to recognize such beauty within a moment! I know few persons who grasped immediately the inner beauty of the person if s/he has in real and i found them correct every time!
Well, I have also significantly positive experiences to grasp the inner beauty of few persons with whom today I am connected and we exchange so many things too! It is really a deep sense to grasp such a thing and I am really satisfied with myself regarding this happened to me! But at the same time I also grasp the negativity also connected with the person, but thank to the universal law or grace that whom I have found with inner beauty have not such kind of negativity or say that they have had dealt with such from within!
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
11 Oct 07
WOW...this ability of yours is really terrific..!
We people spend kind of whole of our lifes to know someone's inner real beauty..!!
It takes years..!!
Thanks for yoru response.
It was qualiy one.
:)
@monkeywriter (2004)
• United States
11 Oct 07
The guy I have a crush on now, I didnt think he was that good looking just not ugly. He is a singer, I didnt even like his voice. After a time of realizing how great he was inside and stuff I began to realize he truly is good looking all around.
Its not the same but similar to my longest crush in high school of 3 yrs. Not super great looking, I fell for a guys heart. He was humble, funny and kind. I began to think he was cute after I fell for how he acted.
Truly then I do look for inner beauty not just outer. Outer is for crushes on celeb's not people you will date and maybe marry! I hope others do the same for me, because I dont usually like how I look most of the time, but I know I have a great heart. Just those who truly look deep find out that I am beautiful inside & out too :)
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
11 Oct 07
YOu know when your find some one beautiful from inside..then you naturally start fining that person beautiful from outside also..
Thanks for your reponse.
:)
@kannasri (2)
• India
10 Oct 07
we can't analyse anybody by seeing his face. But we can analyse once we make even a small conversation. every body told inner beauty is good but first of all they have to realize are they beautiful from innerside. i believe but honestly i am not as beautiful but i love inner beauty and i met many more persons.
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@pendragon (3349)
• United States
10 Oct 07
Yes, very much so, my gf has inner and outer beauty, I don't know what she sees in me, but I hope she sees it forever,lol.
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@trialrun01 (644)
• India
11 Oct 07
See, Ofcourse the first impact anyone makes on you is because of his appearance. Its only later that the true inner beauty come into front and you realize how beautiful the person actually is. Its not that ordinary looking people are not welcomed but it does take a bit more time for them to become close friends than the ones who look good.
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@cristobert (332)
• India
10 Oct 07
Yes, It's true I've been attracted by peoples inner beauty than outward. But as humans we always fall far the outer and regret later.
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@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
10 Oct 07
All the time i go for the inner beauty but some times by chance you get it from the inside and the out but not always. I find that most very attractive to the eye people are very shallow because they are hot and know it not very becoming by no means makes me ill. I have been with alot of people that others looked at me and said what do you see in them they are so ugly. Not hard to tell where their values are does it. When you make that connections especially in love it has to come from within or it wont work. It is like a chocolat bar the wrapper does not mean anything it is the choclate inside that matters now dont it lol. Thanks for the discussion.
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@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
Beauty for me goes not just with the outside but with the inside. I cannot agree to say that one is beautiful if he/she is cursed for being rude or inhuman. I always believe that being the friend everybody likes is beauty. The shine outside is always a projection of his/her heart. I like people who stays in tune with a wonderful, healthy, loving heart. I value a person who knows what the heart is for. Nothing to worry about what people see in you because what truly matters is what they can say about you. Beauty goes hand in hand, the outside projects the inside.
Stella, yes, I agree. Stay beautiful! Spread the love!
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@errielle (442)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
Yes I do. I liked someone who is not really handsome but who is fun to be with, talks with sense, and really takes care :) beauty is really defined not only with what you see with your bare eyes but what you feel about the persons personality. It is something that no one can get it away from that person.