To be friend again? Fix it or not?
By tujiagirl
@tujiagirl (368)
China
October 10, 2007 8:35pm CST
He is one of my male friend,not boyfriend. Our relationship is complicated. His best friend used to tell me that he was in love with me,but when I asked him whether it was true or not,he denied. So I asked him to stop his friend from telling others that we were carring on a love fair. From then on,our relationship becomes complicated. It seems like that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
We have graduated from same university. We are both in same city now. I was used to go swimming with him. Since last time he rejected my invitation it seems that he doesn't want to go with me anymore.I don't know how to do now. He even doesn't want to talk to me online, although he doesn't prevent my MSN ID. I think we are still friends no matter what has happened. Maybe I'm wrong.
Recently he has got some problems in his job. I tried to comfort him. What I got is his "It's none of your bussiness".
My friends here, did I do something wrong? Should we keep in touch with each other?
Do you think I should try to fix the friendship between us or just let it go?
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2 responses
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
11 Oct 07
It sounds to me that maybe he really does have feelings for you in another way and by you telling him to stop people from saying you two are together, it may have hurt him a bit and he's just trying to deal with it. Give him some time...I'm sure that things will work out and that the two of you will be really good friends like you have been for years. He may just not know how to react to the things that you said and is dealing with it in his own way. Some men are very strange about things and maybe he is just trying to figure out how he really feels about things. let me knw how things turn out and good luck
@Dee351972 (743)
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11 Oct 07
Hi, from what i read i feel you need to wait for him to make the next move. You have tried and stuff right? you can try one more time and or maybe write hima email and tellhim you still want to be freidns but the ball is in his court now. Tell him h e has to come to u. For you dont know what you did wrong or what his problem is.
