Would You Marry your Bestfriend??
By sugarbabe
@sugarbabe (114)
Fiji
October 10, 2007 9:17pm CST
Well this may sound like a "Mills & Boons" fantasy. I'd personally never marry my bestfriend. Simply because i can't think of sharing a romantic chemistry with my best buddy. Basically, the relationship between two buddies and husband-wife is totally different. And i feel my husband should have an added spark besides being an understanding friend. What do you think, would you marry your Bestfriend??
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9 responses
@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
15 Oct 07
But if you love each other and you two connect in some level of relationships and that it can be better if you two are married why not? but mostly it is not a good idea.. bestfriend will be best if they are really true to themsleves and ready to face the consequences of being not only bestfriend.
@cosmopolitan (1263)
• India
12 Oct 07
why not.I will definitely marry.The only thing is that she would consent.You know almost everything about your best friend you share secrets with her then can't you marry if both of you are willing
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 07
How you define your best friend? Of course the person whom understands you,knows you and your needs, a person whom can make you laugh, a person whom share your bad moments and also a person who cares and a person whom you can trust right? So i thinks nothing wrong with it.. if you both know each other and have feelings for each other.. i would say there will be no other better person that you can get to be your spouse.
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
11 Oct 07
That one is definitely a tough call. If you were to marry your best friend and then something happened, you would not only loose a husband but a friend as well. For me, my husband became my best friend but wasn't when we got married. I think that everyone's situation is different. some people can handle it and some can't. just depends on the person and how they feel about their friend. if they love that person romantically then i think it would be a good thing. at times, it works out for the best. not in every case though, but some do
@quiethorse (337)
• United States
12 Oct 07
I married my best friend and 15 years later we still are best friends. I guess it depends on who your best friend is. I wouldn't marry my friend James. That would be weird and just wrong!
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
11 Oct 07
My boyfriend is basically my best friend so yes I would. Now my other best friends, probably not, one's my brother, one's a girl, and the other is a man who is gay, so I don't think any of those would really work out.
@starrywonder (625)
• United States
11 Oct 07
It really depends on if you love him. Ive heard of people who secretly love their best friend. My aunt is marrying her best friend. She seems to love him. Also she said she would not want to lose him if they broke up.
