Still Hurts
By missyann73
@missyann73 (1454)
United States
October 10, 2007 9:21pm CST
I lost my beloved mother to cancer almost three months ago, and life still has no meaning for me. Sure I get up and go to work, and do the normal every day things to survive, but will the ache and hurt and loss feeling in my heart ever cease?
She was such a big part of my life for 35 months, as I was her sole caregiver.
Please pray for me, my friends here on mylot.
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8 responses
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
22 Oct 07
I am sorry that you lost your beloved, but we have come to this Earth with a return ticket. All of us must learn it. It not easy to accept when we loose somebody who fulfilled the big part of our daily life, but we must to step toward.
It is easier to say, than to do, I know. I am really sorry.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I understand the pain you are going through, missyanne, for I just lost my own mother 8 months ago. It leaves a big hole in your heart and your life. I miss my mother for so many reasons as I am sure you do. I lost my older sister 5 months before my mother and we were very close. I went through a lot of soul-searching during these times. I finally concluded that we are to honor our loved ones memories and that they would not want us to grieve forever. You will eventually pick up the pieces of your life and go on. Take as much support as you need from loved ones that are here and now. Best wishes.
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@missyann73 (1454)
• United States
15 Oct 07
Thank you for your kind response. May God Bless you and your family
@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
dont wori my friend i will pray for you but you should help yourself also... yeah it really when your loved ones lost but its life... we should know how to face it... we should accept the reality... it isnt easy to do this but always ask for gods help and he will guides you all the time... keep smiling
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@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
11 Oct 07
I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Best of luck with everything.
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@biznitch (7)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Hello missyann73(1149)
I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother.I know it is a hard thing to care for people with cancer as my spouse is dying with terminal cancer.There are hard days,as you know.
Just try to remember any good memories and remember them frequently.This may give you some comfort for now.Im here if you need to talk.
Sincerely Diana
@missyann73 (1454)
• United States
14 Oct 07
May God Be with you and your spouse. please let him know how you feel and talk with him. I only wish I had said more to my beloved mother.
My email is missyann73@yahoo.com if you would liketo talk.
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
11 Oct 07
I am so sorry to hear that your mother passed away. I know that loosing a loved one is extremely difficult. The hurt will supside, but it never goes away completely. You will always have the memory of your mother, but days will get easier. It just takes time. Some days will be good days and others will be bad days, but you can always talk it out with us on the days you need someone. i will be praying that God will take away the pain and that in exchange you will remember the good times and cherish those moments. It will get easier with time though i promise. It is still pretty fresh and new to you and you need to go through that grieving process. For some it takes longer than others, and you being her sole caregiver it will probably take a little bit longer. If you need to talk or anything just hollar at me. I'm always around somewhere on here and am always hear to listen. God bless you
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@jdeforge (224)
• United States
30 Nov 07
I can relate missyann, I lost my dad 3 months ago. Nothing can prepare you for something like that, whether you know it'll happen sooner or later.
To watch the person that was your creator, your caregiver, and the one that loves you unconditionally hurt and theres nothing you can do is the worst thing in the world to go through. I talk to my dad every day, I remind myself he's at my beckon call and will listen.
My dad was the ONLY man ever in my 27 years that was 100% honest with me. Whether it hurt or not, I always got the truth. Right before he passed he told my mom "This is only the begining" and I will hold that with me the rest of my living years. If my daddy said so...it IS so.
Always remember "Always a blessing, never a loss"