when did you cry loudly the last time? and why?
By chym1101
@chym1101 (169)
China
October 10, 2007 10:25pm CST
dear friends, as you are getting older and older do you think crying as a shamed thing? And is there some person who tell you not to cry but to face your problem strongly? So ,how long havn't you cried?
The last time I cried loudly is last year, when I am already 22! I remember it clearly. It is a 7-day holiday, and most people go back home. I didn't because I have something esle to do. I was unprosperous at that time and I encountered things annoied me that half year. And i need lots of money. But i have to ask from my parents. Remeber that i am already 22, and I am so ashamed! Hanging up the call to my father, I can't control myself anymore and I cried loudly!
Sometimes crying is good for your health, because we want to cry because of indignation or sorrow. So it is better to release it! So do not hold back your crying, dear my friends. Crying is good for you. Think of the tears as little drops of liquid reality.
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9 responses
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
11 Oct 07
I agree that crying is healthy an dnothing to be ashamed of. I consider myself strong, I've been through a lot of experiences, some frightening. Some physically challenging like long work days or forty eight hours of labour - and hard labour because I was induced to the very first contraction had me throwing up in pain.
Crying is an excellent release. Sometimes I watch movies that I know will make me cry for just that reason. Crying is evidence that we can feel - and feel deeply. I'd rather feel strongly then be cold and unfeeling, controlling of my emotions.
Excellent topic!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
11 Oct 07
Oh and as far as the last time - I can't remember - the last time I cried loudly was as a child but I'm sure I've cried recently - perhaps even today - there was a story on the news about a child left to die in the desert in the state of New Mexico.
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
11 Oct 07
It has been a difficult two weeks when I would have loved to cry, but I just couln't, tears just wouldn't come. The bad new had nothing to do with me or my family, but I felt strongly about it and the news made me feel bad, as it has to do with families being deported and of them being separated in the process. But then this morning I got an email from a friend, it was just a typical email, with a true story perhaps, somebody with cancer, but I just couldnt help it and I started to shiver and cry! Maybe I cried this morning for the guy in the story who had cancer and passed away, or perhaps for the children being deported and their parents. Yea, I think one needs a cry every now and then, to clean up the feelings inside, sort of!
@chryss (658)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
the last time i cried is last february 2007.thats was the time when i had my hair cut.i am worried much for my hair because the person who made the hair cut my hair style is very disgusting.she made my hair busted lol!so that time when i got home i cried and shouted...im very sad and agree of the so i really cried.yes crying is good for us people.
@Flysun (10)
• China
11 Oct 07
Yes ,you are righht.as i am getting older and older ,i often control myself and told myself i must strong,i can did it.but it's very tire.
@KumoriNeko (60)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
Yep, crying is not a shameful thing. It's one of the things that makes us humanly emotional. I let it out when I need to, and I usually do it in the bathroom. I don't know, maybe it's because the place is quiet and I don't have to face anyone and struggle to explain between sobs. All in all crying is good. PUNCH YOURSELF AND TRY IT! lol
@marymarj2002 (1769)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
The last time I cried so hard and I even shout because we have a big fight with my husband and one of the cause is her mother. I was so hurt that time that I need to cry hard and even shout to lessen the pain in my heart. I think that is one of the worst fight we had. I am hoping that it would not happen again because after I shout I realise that maybe other people are listening and I am ashamed of it because they might be thinking something bad about me. But anyway that alreaday happened.
@monkeywriter (2004)
• United States
11 Oct 07
Actually today. My job might not go so well, I was having a horrible day. I cried off and on for almost an hour. I hate crying so much. Cause it makes me tired and hurts my eyes and I feel horrible all day. I know God catches our tears in jars, I probably have a million in heaven. I cry a lot, and often I can be very emotional. Its probably why I wrote poetry.
@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
The last time I cried was last month. Because I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago. I really cried oceans. I've learned that I needed to cry to let out the pain inside me but I also need to accept and not whine.
