Hate and love

Hello mycharm! Yes, I experienced that situation too. I think some people used to hate the person they like so that it will not be obvious that you really like him or her. However, it is kinda different from your situation. Have a nice day and God speed!

I only get that feeling everytime I tease someone, then would later on realize that it turned into reality. Sometimes, people would just hide the feelings they have as a sort of defensive strategy!LoL Though it happened to me one time, I experience that on my friends. I would tease both and pass on informations about each other, with me acting as their invisible bridge!;) I'd be happy whnever I see the results turned into good things, it makes me think that it is always great to share the love and spread it to everyone!;)

it did not happened with me. I must say what happened is just the other way. There was a guy. he was my friend at work. We were good friends . He had some feelings and he proposed me after some months. I declined as I saw him as friend only. Later it turned out that he was just acting nice to take advantage of me. Recently he behaved very badly with me for no reason and i was shocked. Now I hate someone whom i thought my best friend once.

even this kind of incident happened to me as well, when i was in my first year but the person whom i proposed hated me in the first place but now that person likes me but there is a slight problem in that now i dont want her to be my lover because she doesnt want me to be her real lover. she wanted the relationship just for 3 years till she finishes her college

Hum,I think it is possible,the person who you love hurt you more painful than the person who you do not love very much hurt you.When you are hurted deeply,you would hate the person who hurt you.

That's confusing.. Your HATE can change to LOVE anytime.. its just a matter of AT THE SAME TIME. Loving and hating AT THE SAME TIME is impossible in this universeee

Dear as you know hates generate for whom you have a space in your heart.You can see whom I dont know atall or whom we dont depended atall we cant hate them.We just ignore them.The frist step of love to anyone is hating him/her.We generally answer no if anybdy propose us for love or marry.We have a little space fro him/her in our heart.Thanks.

There are many people experience that. I also have the same experience, but we did not end up together. I hate him when we are classmate, and when he went to college, i realized he is good looking. But although we became friends, we did not end up together. This can happened to anyone of us. We suddenly realized their potential in the right time that is why we end up liking them.

I do believe that there really is a very very fine line between love and hate. If you think about it , both are very strong emotions. You really have to have a strong reaction emotionally to that person to feel either. I used to feel as if I "hated" my ex husband. I loved him very deeply for a very long time. When things went bad, the intensity of the anger was so strong. I would say as strong as the love i had once felt. I think that more than hating him, I hated that he even mattered in my life. I think maybe a part of me did still love him and wished that I didn't. It was a very painful time in my life and such a relief when I could be around him with no emotional reaction at all...when I really would not care a bit if he found another girlfriend or anything at all.

yes it is possible coz you are concern of why you hate him!

yeh i beleive in it, n i have nvr experienced the example wht u have mentioned above...bt i have heard about the same form many people and have seen the same among my freinds as well... theres this friend of mine the girl used to hate her very much n they used to always tend to fight and they had difference of opinion finally after certain years thy got together n they are still together its almost 7 yrs now.. there are 2 kinds of love, one in which the boy / girl either of thm is silently admiring the other (without the others knowledge ) and then over a period of time it turns into love and the other oen whcih satrts with hate n thn gradually turns into love..

Hi Charm! In science it is said that similar poles detract each other, so as emotion. When one likes the other and his style of approach didn't fit your taste, your tendency is to dislike him. The more you negate his feelings, the more you give more emphasis on his being, such that you will miss him, his styles, then without knowing it, you are trap to like the person. That's why, when both of you like its other, it's now the turn of the strong vs. the weak that made you attract each other....he,he,he...can this explain such emotion?

I loved my ex husband then I started hating him and that turned into a divorce :)-Amber

Life is very short. I do not find enough time to love. Hate is not in my agenda.

Until now, I still dont understand that sayings. Maybe in some ways that can be apply, but very rare. Because I believe that if you really hate someone that means majority of what you feel or what you see in him is his negative side. So how can you say that you love him or her more. Well, maybe I could say that in some hate develops to love or the other way around.

I do think the 2 feelings can join together but not for long.Either it turns into pure love or pure hate.I loved my kids father but i hated him for everything he did to me.I stayed with him because i loved him.Even when i left him i still loved him but after a while the love turned into just flat out HATE!!

If you hate someone - you obviously care! My mom always told me there was a very thin line between love and hate. I didn't understand what she meant until I had my heart broken. I went from loving him to hating him in just a few days. I hated him because he hurt me(obviously)...it's not until you can let go that those feelings subside.

I once have this guy friend who told me that there's only a thin line between hate and love. I think this is true and has a conection to the saying "the more you hate, the more you love. The logical explanation of why we hate a person is the we unconsciously get affected by him. in the first place, why subject yourself to letting him get to your nerves when you don't feel anything for him? If you consider him to be nothing then you wouldn't care less and just go on completely ignoring him. Fact is, your hatred is sometimes a defense mechanism of you trying to control your feelings towards that person.

we are human beings,and i think the feeling you mentioned is common. For many people,when the lover he or she loves leave away for ever,such feeling may appear.At the same time,if the world is full of uncertains,you will never kown what will happen to you in a minite. Agree?

i believe this sayig.beacause i meet this situation in high school.there was a beautiful girl in our class.i liked her and we had lunch tegether.she and i were student union'member.so the oppertunity of getting along with her was more and more.one day i heard that she was quarrling with my best friend,using fourletter word.i couldn't bear that.after that i hated her so much.but along with the passage of time.i like her gradually again.