How to fall in love?

China
October 11, 2007 10:30am CST
I am 21 years old.still have no boyfriend.Some boys have asked me to be their girlfriend,but I don't like them.I find it hard for me to fall in love with a guy . What can I do?
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5 responses
• United States
11 Oct 07
Well if you dont like the guys that have asked you so far, then you need to sit and think about what you want or like for a guy. You'll need to think about if you like personality more than looks, or if they are equal. Once you know what you want in a guy you can start to look around, or if one comes around that you think matches what you like, then you can take a chance :)
• China
11 Oct 07
Thank you ,that make sense.I will have a try.
• United States
9 Nov 07
You need to decide what you want out of the relationship. Is it about looks, care, or reassurance? If its so tough finding a boyfriend you like, try a website that will find you matches or a facebook.
• India
15 Oct 07
Plz think abt the problem you have and dont make the matter very complicated, if u dont like say without any hesitation, dont waste your or his time ...................
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• Philippines
17 Oct 07
Dont look and search to fall in love. for love will come in time. Just go on dating and soon you'll realize that you like someone already. but dont push yourself to be involved with someone.
9 Nov 07
Just wait,nothing else. you are only 21 and can wait for the right guy to come along. you dont have to make an effort to fall in love, its a spontaneous thing that just happens at the right time. Dont force it, let it happen,that way it will be more beautiful.