Have time for me

I have the same problem. I try to get stuff done during the day and it's just impossible, which can be frustrating at times. At night, by the time I get the last one to sleep and I too exhausted to do anything that "I" want to do, so I end up just watching some tv or getting online for an hour sometimes. It will be easier when they get older. They will be more independant and more likely to be able to do things on thier own. Of course, then I will be yearning for the days when my babies needed me for everything LOL. I guess you just can't win.

Are you a single mom? Sometimes its hard even if you are married, trust me i know. I have 3 kids, 5,2 and 3 months. Do you have someone that can babysit them for you? Right now I don't get much time to myself either. We got the older two on a schedule so that they are in bed by 8 so that helps but I still have the baby. My mom keeps the kids overnight once a month which is a nice break for me. If I'm really stressed my husband will take them in the evening and i'll go soak in the tub. Even if you could just get a babysitter and go to a movie with a friend you'd be surprised how good that feels.