your a christian and he is a muslim.. who would you think will make the sacrife?

To be honest I have no respect for people who would abandon their religion for a spouse. It drives me absolutely insane that people should even think of it as a possibility, let alone a necessity. I'm married to someone of a different religion than myself, and neither of us would ever ask the other to change. We celebrate both religions' holidays, had traditions from both religions in our marriage ceremonies, and plan to teach our son many religious views and let him choose for himself. I think if you change your religion for your partner, it means you never had any real faith or dedication in the first place. I know, that sounds very harsh. But I am deeply religious, and love my Gods very much, and cannot imagine giving them up for another person.

I don't think either of you have to change or anything, I mean if you want to that's fine, but there's no need to change. I'm not a Catholic, but my ex was, and we were both fine with each other being something different. We always said if we had children, we'd teach them all the different kinds of religions so they can choose for themselves what they'd want to believe in.

Actually neither of you have to. I personally chose to convert when my Islamic husband and I got married, but according to Islamic law, its not nessisary for you as a female to convert. Also, its fine for you two to be togeather. There would be a problem though if you were Islamic and he was Christian, that is against Islamic law. But there really is no need for you to covert, as long as you are practicing what is considered one of the Abrihamic (sorry for the spelling) religions ie: Islam, Judism, or Christanity no conflict, see?