Have you ever cheated...
By kerryq2705
@kerryq2705 (8672)
United States
29 responses
@quink82001 (2938)
• United States
28 Oct 06
ive never cheated on anybody and as far as i know i havent been cheated on. but i could have been cheated on and not have found out maybe. I hope not though.
@fbarcenas (129)
• Mexico
28 Oct 06
Wish you had never known? What kinda crap is that? You wish to not know if your wasting your life with a person? Do you not value yourself?
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I think I would want to know if someone was cheating on me. But then I think maybe it would be better not to know, but I think it's better to know if you are wasting your life with someone who's gonna just keep cheating on you.
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@countryrush (105)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Usually its better not to know. I wish I had never known
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@fbarcenas (129)
• Mexico
28 Oct 06
My wife cheated on me with a 16 yo guy, that eventually dumped her. But I guess I had the last laugh after all, I married a 14yo knockout.
@fbarcenas (129)
• Mexico
28 Oct 06
You can marry a 12 year old in the state of Kentucky with parental consent.
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
You married a 14 yr. old, may I ask how old you were when you married her? Thanks for your response :)
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@countryrush (105)
• United States
28 Oct 06
14 years old. Isn't that illegal? I thought the ago of consent was 16 and you had to get parents permission. I dunno though
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Yeah it does wreck you emotionally. When I was cheated on it took me more than a year to get over it. It was so hard for me to trust again after that. I have never cheated on anyone either and would never do that, I couldn't live with myself either. Thanks for your response :)
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@katiem (221)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Cheated on my boyfriend when I was in high school but I was young and stupid then. I have never done something like that since then. I have been cheated on before and I ended it right away. When there is no trust left there is no relationship left.
@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I agree when the trust is gone its hard to stay in a relationship. You can always try and get the trust back but it takes a lot of hard work, but if you love someone enough you can do anything. Thanks for your response :)
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@MichelleLDevon (828)
• United States
28 Oct 06
My last relationship recently ended when he cheated on me... though he claims he didn't, he now lives with the 'other woman'... what did I do? Nothing. What could I do? Better to know now than to find out later, I suppose.
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I have had a relationship end because I was cheated on. I tried to get past it and trust him again but it didn't work. You can forgive but you can't forget. I was just always wondering and it was horrible. I have never cheated on anybody and would never do something like that. I agree that it's better to know now then to find out later. Thanks for your response :)
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Well that's good so many ppl these days cheat, I have never cheated either and I never would. Thanks for your response :)
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@Dark_Prince (152)
• India
28 Oct 06
yes several times but ofcozzzzzz didnt hurt any1 in the process
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@Estrella72 (203)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Someone has cheated on me. Initially I flipped out and went to his house and confronted him. I said everything I felt like saying and he was in tears before I went home. I was miserable for several months after that
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Its so hard when someone cheats on you. It happened to me when I was younger and I did the same thing you did. I went and confronted him only he wasn't in tears, he didn't seem to care much. It took me a long long time to get over it. Thanks for your response :)
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@cutedeceiver (384)
• Pakistan
28 Oct 06
Whenever you’ve been cheated by someone you just don’t do any thing, you just FEEL...
& whatever is done that is by TIME. Because time is the best healer than any other thing.
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Yeah and what you feel is such heartache and pain its awful. Time does heal but it takes a lot of time. Thanks for your response :)
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
It hurts so bad when someone cheats on you. How did you handle it if you don't mind me asking? Thanks for your response :)
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@countryrush (105)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Both. It sucks being cheated on by someone you care about. And when I was young and dumb I cheated on my husband before we got married. I fessed up and it still comes up to this day but I am earning his trust back little by little.
@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Well a lot i'm sure a lot of ppl have done some dumb things when they were younger, but you grow up and learn from your mistakes. Thats great though that you were open and honest with him, and wish you luck at earning his trust back. Thanks for your response :)
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@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
6 Nov 06
That's good you have never had to deal with cheating, it hurts so badly when someone cheats on you. Thanks for your response :)
@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Wow! Congrats on your 47 years of marriage thats wonderful! You have been with the same guy since you were 17 thats amazing to hear. You don't hear of marriages lasting that long these days so when you hear bout something like this its exciting, congrats again! Thanks for your response :)
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@achilles7 (1276)
• India
5 Nov 06
So far I have cheated none.I try to as honest as possible in my dealings.I believe Honesty is the best policy.What shall I gain by cheating others.
@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Yes, honesty is always the best policy. Thanks for your response :)
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@reneous (716)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Ok I calculated this up the other day because I'm a dork: 85% of the guys I've dated have cheated on me. Yes... 85%. It hurt, but I've let it go because I know that all I need is ONE who won't cheat - and he'll come around sooner or later ;) God will take care of me!
@kerryq2705 (8672)
• United States
5 Nov 06
your not a dork! Wow 85% huh thats a lot sorry to hear that. Yes, it does hurt but you learn to deal with it and let it go. It can take a lot of time and heartache but eventually time will heal the wounds. yes, thats right all you need is just one that won't cheat, you have some good thinking!!! God will take care of all of us! thanks for your response :)
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