Updating On Life/ Problems With Oldest/Homecoming
@ohiomotherofseven (36)
United States
October 13, 2007 1:00pm CST
First, I'm sorry I haven't updated in awhile because I just started back to work and it's taken me awhile to get use to it.
Second, My oldest has experienced her first real heartbreak. She was dating this one boy for 7 months but he ended it then she didn't tell me they started going back out.
I only know this because she was talking to my second oldest about it and he told me.
Her grades aren't suffering. She's still doing her activities. The only thing I've noticed is that she refuses to talk to anyone. She was talking to my second oldest but she won't even talk to him anymore.
Just last night she went to the Lebanon football game by herself (which I didn't know about because I don't like the idea of her driving about an hour by herself at night)
Her best friend told me that she won't even talk to her. She also said she's dropping alot of friends.
Do any of you have any ideas about what to do?
I've never had to deal with this because my older children never got into the dating thing intill they went to college.
So, if you have any ideas of getting her to talk or anything please let me know
Things with Nekk are going great my oldest children are helping him out with homework and making him attend they're social events XD
He even went to homecoming :)
1 response
@THKOhio (329)
• United States
18 Oct 07
It sounds like she might be depressed. If she won't talk to anyone at home, or to her friends, then I would see about getting her to talk to someone in the church, or perhaps a counselor. My children have gotten depressed after the end of long-term relationships, and it is very important for them to talk things out.
