Missing Someone Terribly

missing you - missing someone terribly
Philippines
October 14, 2007 2:34am CST
Have you ever missed someone so much that you wanted to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real? Me, I do.. wherein I could only be with him in my dreams. But every time I wake up, loneliness then surround me because of someone's absence:-(
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@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
19 Oct 07
Yes, I have, so I understand your feelings, shameh. I had a long-distance relationship for years before we finally got married last year. We met via the internet through a penpal club online, then we fell in love. Even after our wedding, we had to be separated for 4 months 'coz I had to do the paperwork before applying for a residence permit. It felt like HELL, those 4 months. We cried a lot during those times, esp. when we talked on the phone. Gladly now we're together again. :-)))) I hope you can be together with the person that means so much to you...but you said you could only be with him in dreams? Why? Did he die? If so, I'm SO sorry to hear that. I hope time will heal the pains...or at least lessen it bit by bit.
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
I do appreciate you a lot for sharing such romantic story in this site. And I'm so glad to know that LOVE really still works nowadays. Well, I have this someone in my life before when I was still too young, really so young then. He was actually my best friend and we were together for almost four years. But sad to say that we've parted ways due to inevitable circumstances. We've had different lives and I know the very fact that I still love him. I tried winning him back but I just can't because he said that turning back times isn't that easy. And it would be healthy for the two of us to remain as friends. That's why I'd say that I could only be with him in my dreams, all I could do is just reminisce the good old days we've shared. Nothing more, it's so sad yet it's for real:(
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• Finland
19 Oct 07
Hi, shameh! Ahhh...now I understand the story better. Yeah, it IS hard for you then. However, if you two REALLY belong together, you may be together later in the future, but let's just say that for now it's better to move on...bit by bit. I have another romantic story about this kind of friendship. My hubby's brother had a best friend (female) for 20 years. When they were young, the girl wanted him, but he didn't want to ruin their friendship. Then the girl got married, had a daughter, and got divorced...but they're still good friends. Now, years afterwards, they've finally found out that they love each other. So maybe it's not too bad after all that you showed him your feelings...who knows what might happen one day? But again, for now better just forget about him...life's unpredictable...there are many fishes in the sea...you'll never know who you'll end up with if you open up your heart. So many possibilities. Isn't it interesting? ;-D
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• Philippines
19 Oct 07
Wow, what a romantic story! Yeah, you're right. We might not be meant for each other. At least he's been part of my life. I have learned a lot from him. And the greatest thing I've learned from him is LOVE. He showed me what love is and made me feel loved in his own ways. God might have other plans for the two of us. And you're right, I need to move on. I'm actually working on it bit by bit, like what you said. Right now, I'm just diverting my mind and of course opening my doors to anyone who knocks unto it. I know someday, I'll find that someone whom truly deserves me. What's important is that I'm not rushing things out, because I'm actually happy and contented with what God is giving me right now:)
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• Philippines
14 Oct 07
yes, definitely i missed someone so much like i could die at this very moment just to see and be with him terribly, But that would be impossible to happen, there are so many hindrances that blocked our way...that just can't be.. it's too bad for me and it is so unfair, situations seems to be so complicated, i sometimes hated myself for feeling it and having the emotion of missing someone who haven't missed me in return..duh!
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
Life is really like that. Because as they say, life is not at all a bed of roses. We must admit that love makes our lives sweeter yet painful. I believe that our lives are like roses, before we could embrace the rose, we should face its thorns first. I understand how much you missed that someone in your life. But you must not hate yourself because after all, it's not your fault. It might not really the two of you. Who knows, your prince charming is yet to come. So you should not close your doors and hate yourself. Just live life and be ready for whatever surprises it would give you.
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• United States
15 Oct 07
yes i know how u feel my hubby for 9 years ended up in jail and for 5 months oll i did was dream about him and how much i wanted to hold him. he is home now and i hold himas much as i can and kiss him as much as i can. it sucks sleeping alone. i got to the point i got a dog and i let the kids sleep with me. yes i difd see when i took him to anf from jail but when he had to go back all i did was cry all night long
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
I'm appreciate your effort in sharing the sad story of your past. I know being away from our loved ones isn't that easy. One day without them is like spending one year of our lives alone. I did feel that same way too when I lost someone so special in my life. But your story is better because your loved one was back. But in my life, I was never given the chance to be with him again. Yet is still okay, what is important is that he's been a part of my life.
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• Indonesia
14 Oct 07
Ahhhh, I know just how you feel, I have a close friend, she was more like a sister for me. We were so close that others would think that we were a couple. She has a boyfriend now and for any reason she has to make a distance with me.She changes he phone cell number without even telling me. You know what,I feels so terrible that I feel that I was being used.Sometime I manage to forget her but when she reach into my dream I just can't help it and wake up in the middle of the night till morning comes. It's been 3 months now. I'm getting better I hope I'll totally forget her someday.
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
It's so nice to hear your story. You're indeed lucky to have experience something like that in your life. I could as well relate to your situation because I was into that thing before. It's just that, nothing really is permanent in our lives. As they say, life is always a constant change. We could never hold everything no matter how much we wanted to. All we can do is to cherish each moment we share with those special people.
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• China
14 Oct 07
Maybe everyone has ever been in love with someone.However,they can't stay with each other in reality.The person in my dream is my first BF,while we are only common friend now.
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• Philippines
19 Oct 07
You're definitely right my dear. Life is really like that. People just come and go in our lives. And we can never hold them forever no matter how much we would want to. I'm glad that you've shared a part of your love life. I have also encountered that thing before. My one great love, who, at the same time is my best friend.. we were once so inseparable. But now, we seldom see each other. At first, it was really so hard. But I'm glad I had finally moved on from that scene of my life.
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• China
22 Oct 07
You'r definitly right. When i have broken out with my first lover,i understand one love-struck,who do not make himself a loved person,then his love is impotent,a misfortune.So i find someone who loves me and share joy and sadness each other.Then i know love is giving,not only receiving.
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