It's not how you look, it's how you feel

well,The quote I always apply in my life:Whatever happens,happens for a reason.I can not agree more about your attitude towards life.we didn't exist to please other people but rather to please ourself!wow

Very well said. We don't really live in this world to please other people. It is not actually our main goal, or should I say, life's purpose. We should not focus on what other people might think about us. What is important is we should do what we think is right. Because we always know what is best for us. We know what is our capacity and limitations. We should not listen especially to the pessimistic one who kept on telling us that we can't do it or we can't survive such situation. We should do our best to please us and of course God Almighty whom we owe our lives.

Actionaly we do exist for both except that we shouldn't too far for a side against the other one , but when it refers only for something of mood we shouldn't do pay that much attention to others , how do they look at us or what do they want us to do but we should put our situation first and being HAPPY is serving the others better.