if i lost my best friend.....?

India
October 14, 2007 8:47am CST
i know its hard to regain a friend..... if it happens....i cant bear it.... any sort of idea to prevent or to regain a friend...?
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6 responses
• India
15 Oct 07
Friendship is the most beautiful n true relationhip amongst all.So alz make a point that u dont hurt it or loose it dat easily for silly reasons.Its all about knowning each other,believing in them.Its abt Trust n Understanding.U lost ur best friend try to resolve dat issue by sitting calmly n chatting wth that person.Think of ways out mutually.Dont refrain to tallk to ur friend.In friendship,the only solutin to any kind of big problem is having a word wth ur friend,discussing it n finding ways out of it together.So i believe that any kind of circumstances this idea will definitely work.
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• United States
14 Oct 07
It's hard to regain a friend. Friendship is based on loyalty, trust and respect. And it should be a mutual thing amongst the two. Try talking to your friend, find a common edge of what may have disrupt the soils beneath the soles. If is was solely a common misunderstanding, and patch it up before the hole gets to become too large to mend. Remember, friendship is a second family. It takes seconds to find them, minutes to remember them and a lifetime to forget them. Always know, there is a thing call forgiveness, find the common bond between you two. If it's something that can be fixed, fixed it and live it and the past... the present is today and tomorrow holds the future. Good Luck
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@derek_a (10873)
15 Oct 07
I live by the philosophy that nobody is in this world to live up to my expectations, so if someone want to ignore, I will try to find out if I have done anything to upset them, but otherwise will let it go. We meet many people in this life, some go out of our life, and some stay. :-)
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
14 Oct 07
Hello there. All i know is, friendship has to be mutual. If your friend has decided to let you go as a friend, you should learn to let go too. If it's meant to be, you guys can be good friends again in the future. Friendship is all about trust. In order for the friendship to be lasting, always treat your friends with utmost sincerity and honesty. There are many types of friends. There are some whom you have hurt before. There are some whom have hurt you before. For me, I try to hurt as little friends as possible.
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@alamode (3071)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I would be heartbroken to lose my best friend! I have had a few friends die... I think thats the only way I will truly lose a friend, because even if we don't see each other for long periods of time, we can still get together and be close again.
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 07
Actually give us many example of having good friends in our life. Where there discussion guideline, photo guideline and all the rules and regulations. So same thing to our friend's criteria and category. So we have to draw our own friendship guideline and the category of fiend. It is important for our decision making system and will not regret for the loses as they have violate our friendship guideline.
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