What if you encountered your true love after being married for years?

So it is retarded love. Anyhow I won't completely change my world. Yet we can still be very close friends as I value more of my present family and I don't have any desire to spoil my family.

This is hard to answer for me. I think I would have to evaluate my life the way it is and see if I am getting everythng I need from my current life.

I'd be very very careful! There'd be many things I'd consider - Remember, my spouse may have stayed with me for years, and the children - what about them? Am I willing to let them undergo through the trauma of a broken family? Even more important - I may love the new person, but does the new person love me as much? If that person did, and if that person knew that I already had a good married life, and that I cared for my spouse and children, then that person would probably walk away quietly rather than disturb my current comfortable set up. I'd also try and put myself in my spouse's place and try and imagine the feelings I'd undergo if my spouse did the same thing to me - how would I feel, how would I take it?

I think i will not consider it anymore. It will only bring me greater pain in the head. LOL! If im already comfortably married to my man why would i think of straying. I guess it will be unfair to him if i will do such or even just think about it. I guess ours will be better luck next life or wait until I become a widow! Hehehe...

Because my marriage is working (see pictures in profile. I would say better luck next life. But even in my next life I would hope to meet my husband again just because I believe he is my fairytale and I still have the majic even with my kids around. The person I was mysteriously drawn to is in my bed right now cuddling our two kids. :) www.themomteam.com/stephaniet

In my case my marriage has been over for a while, there is no more love left, all we need to do now is just get divorced. But I have found the fairy tale love that you explain, we have so much in common and although we have not met in person, both of us feel a strong connection,its like if we knew each other for so long. I would change my world for this man, but both of us would have to accept us for who we are. He knows i have children and is willing to accept them as their own, Why not give a try to pursue our happiness, if a marriage is not working, is better to get out of it before it hurts more.

Well this is a conundrum if I ever saw one! And It probably happens more then we suppose. I can imagine the situation... I'd be crazy with desire. I'd be pulled this way, and pulled that way. My kids would hate me, and so would my wife. What to do? Leave my home and family to chase a dream, or go back home and regret it for the rest of my life? I can't imagine leaving my old life behind. My wife, my Home, my kids are just too important. Lets just say I'll stay where I am and Hate myself forever!

I would ask myself if perhaps I was bored with my present situation. At times, people look elsewhere not because they are no longer in love, but more because they need some happiness. I wouldn't go through with any kind of new fairy tale love because my family is too important to me and it wouldn't be worth giving it all up.