Do you have some ideas about make GF or BF?

lovers... - I hope they are lovers.But i know they are too young.I mean just hope lovers can have a good day like these two children in this picture.
China
October 15, 2007 3:37am CST
If you like or love somebody,will you tell him or her?If somebody like or love you,will you accept him or her?I think i'm not a shy girl.But i aways afraid to accept someone.Now it's old enough to make boyfriends.But i really don't want to do that.Even though i have feeling with that boy who runs after me.I guess i need time to know him,i need time to let him know me.But how long?How long can let us know each other?How about you?DO you have the same situstion to me?Or do you have some ideas about make GF or BF?
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12 responses
@bopbop2 (31)
• Philippines
15 Oct 07
Try and get to know him. You'll see that the more time you spend with him you may find that you have a lot in common. After all, you have feeling with him. As soon as you have start having fun, you can get know him better and vice versa. There's no harm in trying. Goodluck and take care always..
• China
17 Oct 07
Really thanks for your encourage.I guess i should spend more time with him to know him.Maybe two or three month later i'll consent of him.Have a good day.
• China
20 Oct 07
Good morning.I'm from China.I have many foreign teachers are from Philippines.They are all friendly as you.Good day.
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
hi..thank you also for appreciating my suggestions..be yourself and believe in yourself..keep in touch and goodluck. hope to hear from you again..by the way, i'm from the Philippines. how about you? take care always...
@cywong (143)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 07
Nothing need to worry of making girl friend or boy friend. Put much of your confidence and sincerity, directly tell her or him about your feeling. Don't worry about the failure, may be you will get the good and positive feedback from her or him.
• China
16 Oct 07
Yes,i think i should be more self-confident.I mean i'm afraid of that bad feeling about part company.Maybe i need courage.
@cywong (143)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 07
In fact, you are really pretty. The chance of winning is very high:). May be need some time to make up yourself before meet your boy friends. Then your boy friends will be more appreciate to be with you. Good luck to you:).
• China
16 Oct 07
Thank you for your encourage.Have a good day,cywong.
@runsgame (2031)
• India
16 Oct 07
i do not feel or think that any idea will work out in this matter. as u have rightly said it will and require time to develop some sort of love or affection towards a person . and of course more and over it is a wonderful meoment also to digest the matter first with your mind and soul and then u need to take a decision for going as bf or gf . no special ideas required to have or select one bf or gf
• China
17 Oct 07
...em...Yes,select need ourselves.No more ideas from others is uesfull.We should depend on ourselves to have a decision.Good day.
@kellyalex (151)
• China
15 Oct 07
Make friends first.When you know him enough and he is fit for you,you could become lover.
• China
17 Oct 07
Yes,it's good way.
• China
15 Oct 07
If the chance comes,never miss it .In terms of your shyness,you can express in a indirect way.that may feel better.Remember not believe god ,god is also unmarried
• China
17 Oct 07
God is also unmarried.i'm so surprised to hear that.Because it's so correct.Thank you very much.
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
if you will not take the risks now? when? its's okay that you still need time to know the guy and vice versa..but as soon as you know that you already had enough 'getting to know each other' then do it...as long as you know what the consequences are in case it fails...but don't worry to much about that...you enjoy life...live it to the fullest
• China
17 Oct 07
Thanks a lot.After to know him enough,i'll accept him.And i guess i will have a good love.Yeah,live it to the fullest.
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I think a lot of it depends on age. But it's important to me to be friends first. I'm married now, so I don't have to worry about gf's and bf's. But the key for me was to talk with the person & get to know him, to find common interests & values... and then as we got to know each other, we realized that we were meant to be together forever. Also -- it depends on if you're looking to be in a committed relationship or if you just want to have fun. The answers lie somewhere within you.
• China
16 Oct 07
Yes.To be friends first is the best way.Time is important.We need time to know each other.Of course i don't want just to have fun.I need earnest love.OK.Best wishes for you and your family.
@babostwick (2036)
• United States
8 Nov 07
Take as much time as you need to get to know someone and yes I would tell her that. I have told her before and have meant it. When I say something like that, I mean it all the time. I've had a couple relationships but not many but really close ones with some women. As far as how long does it take, I have no answer for that because I don't know.
• India
15 Oct 07
I will not hesitate to tell him or her about our feelings. First get to know each other. Then it will be be better to express the feelings.
• China
17 Oct 07
Yeah,i think it's right.We should brave and directly.Thanks for response.
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 07
Hi bluesweety, I think i won't tell him if i lobe him because i am a little bit shy!! Maybe i afraid him will reject me as his gf and so on. I just have my bf on last year which he is my colleague too but we are different office now. When i just join my current company, i do not talk with him. Until one day, he ask me add him in the msn because want me introduce some pretty girls to him. So we start our relationship in msn!! Maybe you can try to have a date with him , then you have more chance to know him more better!! If you refuse to go out with him, so how you want get know him in details. I think you can start relationship with him if you know him in a long time because we only can know the attitude of him more better!!!
• China
16 Oct 07
Hello,shy_gal.Your name let me know your are a shy girl.Internet is a good thing to help us to know more friends.Yes,it's a good way to make GF or BF.We can start relationship as friends.Thank you for your ideas.Good day!
7 Nov 07
first you have to make friendship with her and try to do something unique and try to know about her and don,t give more interest to her and find what she like.
@dk1087 (49)
• India
19 Feb 08
making a bf or gf is very difficult task coz no one can really determine wats going on in the girl's mind or in the boy's mind.Being a boy i would say boys r always considered flirts whereas girls r considered as sweet and honest.and i agree to it but only 50% coz not 100% percent of the boys r like dat girls too can not be like dat.i agree dat boys can slip to anywhere but i they get real loving care frm their girl friends they will never slip and he will love her much more than her girl friend and its a fact.