What Is Really Love For You?

Love is heaven,it cant be hell.I compare love with God,rather it is equivalent to God.You cant feel importance of a relation if you donot get hurt by it,infact you get hurt only coz that relation was very important to you.I am also in love and the person whom i love does not love me,but he is my good friend.So you can imagine how many times i would have hurted.I was also in the same situation as you are,i had also turn my back from LOVE,nd i had decided to not to love anybody and not to think about it anymore.But then i felt something misssing,as if i am living but not happy from inside,so now i acccept that i love him and m not running from it.See another side of coin,love hurts,but it is the one that makes your life THE LIFE.So dont run from it,accept it.And i am sure you also feel incomplete without it,thats why you are discussing this topic..

Well, that is love... being hurt is part of loving. No one in this world love and live happily ever after, they also experience the pain of loving. If your hurt, it means you feel love... it your not hurt, you didnt love him or her at all...

There is more to love than the feeling of being in heaven or hell. We all want to be happy, but in love or life for that matter, there are no guarantees. Just like problems, they come and go. We solve most of them, while some of them are left on their own. But above all these things, we move on and we learn from the experience. I think that's the most important part-- that we learn and we take risks again. We cannot live our lives trying to escape from experiencing or risking something. Because by doing that, we are robbing ourselves of the opportunity to be truly happy. Who knows what lies ahead? Who knows what great future awaits? Only God knows. And if we trust Him enough, then we know that He has only the best intentions for our life.

yeah, I guess you are correct! Me my self don't want to experience it anymore eventhough if it gives the feeling of happiness, and everything and even if you would say that love feels like heaven? , why should one put himself or herself to heaven if he/she knows that sooner or later that love would put him/her in hell. what is the point of having the feeling of heaven if you would also feel the Hell. why not be simple, I mean - to not experience love, It would be great!, you could live a life with no worries. my friend says that love is just an imagination of one's perception. It does not exist according to her if one does not perceive in having it.