who will i choose the one i love or the one who loves me?
By alfecris
@alfecris (181)
Philippines
October 15, 2007 7:09am CST
it is really difficult to decide whether to risk the one you love and stay to the one who loves you or risk the one you really love you and wait to the one whom you love. now is thats the case, what will you do if you are in this situation? how will you handle this problem?
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5 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
15 Oct 07
You are in a relationship where your patrner loves you but you love another more?And the one you love may or may not love you?Right? Well you should go after the one you love, or at least see if he/she loves you as much as you love him/her.You need to see because if you don't , you will always wonder, did I settle for my partner when there was a person that loved me and I let him/her go.And it won't be fair to your current partner if you stay just because you are afraid of being alone. They deserve to be with someone who really loves them.so if you don't love your partner, you should break up with them and go after the one you love.
@DFrodeo06 (1325)
• United States
15 Oct 07
i couldn't make that choice because you can't make someone love you and if some one loves you no saying he won't fall out of love with you so you ahe to find some one you love who loves you back
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
15 Oct 07
Both choice are on wrong side. Love is to love and to be loved. One way traffic means going endlessly - the journey will be boring. So strike a good balance and find a person who loves you and you love that person. That seems to be better way of selecting a right partner for everlasing love life.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
15 Oct 07
If I was in a situation where I had to choose between a guy I loved and a guy who loved me...I would def. have to go with the guy who loves me.
Let's face it, woman who are abused by boyfriends/husbands often say how they love them. Just because you love them, does not mean they will treat you well and love you back.
If you are with someone who loves you, he will treat you right. And maybe with time you can learn to love him. When someone treats you well and spends his life trying to make you happy it will be easy to start having feelings for him.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
15 Oct 07
Hi alfecris! If that is the case..then that will be very difficult. I don't think either way, one will be happier because love should be felt between both persons. As they say, it takes two tango and that goes for love to. Take care and have a nice day.
