What's your disability?

Standard folding wheelchair - Standard folding wheelchair for people who either can't walk or have difficulty walking.
United States
October 15, 2007 4:14pm CST
I have muscular dystrophy and have been in a wheelchair for more than half my life. I also went to university and then had my own business for years before retiring. My husband is a diabetic, with high blood pressure and congestive heart failure. My sister has ulceritive colitis. So, even though their disabilities aren't obvious, they're actually a bit more restricted in their lives than I am. Many of us have some form of physical disability or serious limitation. What's yours and how do you deal with it?
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@patgalca (18398)
• Orangeville, Ontario
15 Oct 07
I have fibromyalgia. Right now I am going through a flare. I am not sleeping well, I am exhausted and my body aches. My ears are ALWAYS ringing and I have to watch foods I eat because of IBS. However, stress and weather affect all these factors. The weather changes recently are probably playing a major role in my crappy feeling right now, and I am not without my share of stress. I try to pace myself, rest when I can, and stay within my limitations. No one can see my illness and people forget that I am ill so I don't get much help. I wish you and your family the best.
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@patgalca (18398)
• Orangeville, Ontario
16 Oct 07
Is there something special about the Viactiv compared to regular calcium? I take 2 Cal/Mad/D a day. I was taking 3 but my creatinine levels elevated so I cut back.
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• United States
17 Oct 07
I'm not sure why Viactiv works. To be honest, I haven't tried pill supplements. I have calcium fortified orange juice each morning and at least one yogurt each day. Also whatever else I can find with calcium, including low fat ice cream. And two Viactiv, one in the morning, one at night. And I can eat almost anything I want now.
• United States
16 Oct 07
My ears ring, too. I haven't found anything to stop it, but I used to have IBS and, for me at least, it was partially a result of not getting calcium in my diet. I thought I was lactose intolerant, too, but it turns out I wasn't. I started taking Viactiv and within three days, the IBS cleared up. I tested by stopping after two months and the IBS came back until I started the calcium chews again. I don't know if it would work for you, but it might be worth a try.
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
I have asthma, Coronary heart disease having had a heart attack in Feb.of 2001, cervical spondylosis and I need both knee replacements and battle a serious weight problem. I am obviously very limited as to how much exercise I can get because of my back and knees so I make a concious effort to do as much as I possibly can on my better days. I fight pain every day but I'm doing my best to not admitt that and I just keep going the best I can. I had a reasonably good day today so I went to the restaurant and I volunteered to peel some potatoes. I do this every now and again and they really appreciate that and I feel good that I have helped someone. I did approx. 80 pounds today.
• United States
17 Oct 07
I've never heard of volunteering to peel potatoes at a restaurant. What a novel idea. I think it's great that you can help out like that. As for the ringing in the ears, I've learned to live with it. And my blood pressure is normal, so it's anybody's guess what causes it.
• Canada
16 Oct 07
I'm sorry I meant to add I also have ringing in my ears. I have been to a specialist, as my doctor was concerned that it was starting to affect my hearing. Turns out there is nothing that can be done about it and it is suspected that it is caused from me being on high blood pressure medications since my heart attack. I still take one pill a day for Blood Pressure but they took me off all the rest and at least the ringing is not getting worse.
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I have a cerebral palsy, use an electric wheelchair, and have a speech impairment. I write everyday snd earn money by it via 4 to 5 websites.
• United States
24 Oct 07
I use a power chair, too. I used to use a manual chair, but decided to save my energies for more important things. I write, too. Tried AC for a while, but it's too much work for too little money. Which sites do you use?
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Oct 07
You have just reminded me of how lucky I am. I'm sorry to hear about your disability, and admire you for the way you face life. I really look up to people like you, and the posts you have made on myLot tell me a lot about your character, but nothing about your health. Please keep the quality posts coming scribler.
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• United States
24 Oct 07
I'm blushing. Thank you for the kind words. But really, it's not a big deal. You do the best you can with what you've got, and this discussion proves how many people out there are just keepin' on keepin' on despite whatever hand life dealt them. Kudos to everyone.
@ElicBxn (63664)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I have fibromylagia & I ruined my feet about 15 yrs ago. On top of those, I have serious food allergies that restrict what I can eat. The fibro causes me to have a lot of pain in my body. 15 yrs ago, I crushed my heels and my archs collapsed. I've never been able to walk pain free since that time. Pain isn't something you can see, but I'm pretty sure that people don't think i'm faking when I get out of the car & go limping into a store.
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• United States
16 Oct 07
How did you crush your heels? Was it a result of the fibro or through an accident?
@ElicBxn (63664)
• United States
16 Oct 07
It seems to have been a mix of bad bones - I've got a problem getting enough calcium in my system - bad shoes and my weight. Tho I weigh more now, since I have trouble exercising now!
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@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
16 Oct 07
there is all different disablities i have an intuell disablity that is i have a learning disablity it takes me awhile to learn
• United States
16 Oct 07
Kudos to you for participating here at MyLot. All this reading and writing will be beneficial in helping you build vocabulary and learn to express yourself. Keep up the good work. And never give up. Taking a while to learn is fine. As long as you're learning. Way to go.
• Australia
16 Oct 07
hello there thankyou for your encourgement i know it is hard having a learning disablity but i can't give up and god bless you
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• United States
15 Oct 07
I have chronic pulmonary heart disease, disk compressions and herniated disks, knees are shot, arthritis, asthma, PTSD and understandably depression. I accumulated injuries as life as progressed. I was in 3 bad car wrecks as the passenger and I was attacked and stabbed in the heart by a serial killer/rapist when I was out celebrating the 4th of July. Anyway, finally in 1998 I applied for disability and guess what am still on appeal .. My attorney just won a case against the state where I was denied saying they were wrong in denying me so that case is still open I have a hearing next month in the state where I live now. needless to say I haven't worked and it's been tough holding it together.
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• United States
16 Oct 07
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes. I hope the case is completely in your favor and that your disability checks start soon. It's not much, but it's a big help to have some kind of income.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I have to wear glasses or I can't really see things at a certain distance from me. My brother is blind, my mother has all kinds of problems with her, mostly from getting older and from working at Ford.
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• United States
16 Oct 07
Sad to say, we're all getting older. Myself included. Our bodies just fall apart, don't they? I wear glasses now, too. Progressive trifocals. I knew I was needing them when I looked up into the sky one day and said to my husband, Hey, look! A biplane! But I was so fuzzy that I saw two wings when there was only one. Just a plane old Cessna. Time for glasses.
• United States
16 Oct 07
I'm 45 yrs. old and have had cerebralpalsy since birth, but i don't let it get me down. My mom used to tell me when i was little, when i'd fall down, to get up dust myself off and start all over agian. So that's what i've done. Now i'm 45 been married 23 yrs. I have 2 beautiful daughters and 3 wonderful precious grandchildren. Sure i have my bad days, but i just keep in the back of my mind what my mother used to tell me, take a deep breathe and start my day. I consider my self blessed in every way. And if i keep being a strong willed person, i feel that God will bless me even more. To everyone out there who has a disibility please don't give up. The doctors said that i would never walk, i started walking when i was 3 and have'nt stopped, sometimes i feel like it but i just keep going. Like i say smile at someone everyday! You may help them more than you know. If you look out their you'll always find someone in worst shape than you are, and i believe that whole heartly. So i just pray for them and count my blessings everyday. Keep in mind we are all one of Gods children and he created the world. So what does that say for his children. There's no end to what we can do if we just believe we can. Never say you can't or let someone tell you, you can't because their wrong, you can do anything you set your mind too BELIEVE !!!!!!
• United States
17 Oct 07
You go, girl! That kind of "can do" attitude goes a long way toward a happy life. When I was first diagnosed, in my teens, my parents continued to expect me to do my chores just like before. Their expectations meant I wasn't coddled or felt sorry for. And it made me even stronger and happier. My Mom always said, "Never say can't." She was a smart lady. You sound like a smart lady, too. Keep smiling!