Ruined Friendship...Do You Have Any

United States
October 15, 2007 8:39pm CST
I Had a best friend since I was 2 years old and we have grown up together and done everything together and really were like sister that didnt get into physical fights with each other lol! But i still love her to death but because we both changed in the past few years we no longer have that much in common and stated getting annoyed f eachother but now that are friendship is pretty much ruined I really miss her and just want to hang out and chill again but I have tried inviting her to do things but she is just not intrested. It is so sad. Hav you lost any friends for any reason? Let me know! If you think I should do something to restore my friendship im open to suggestions.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
16 Oct 07
This does happen with some child hood friendships. It is sad, but if the other person doesn't feel the same way about the friendship there is not much you can do about it. Believe me, I have been there, but over time, I have found really good friends and I treasure those friendships above all. Just give it some time.
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• United States
16 Oct 07
Thanks Good Advise
• India
17 Oct 07
yes e1 i lost my very dear frnd who hv been wth me rite 4m school days.Due to the intervenation of her boyfriend our frndship now is totally ruined n lost.now its a total dismay.she has forgotten me completely no calls no meets no mails nothing but still i think dat n believe dat some day or the other she will cal me up.the day hasnt arrived yet but still waiting for it.
• India
16 Oct 07
It does happen that we do stay friends fror years but due to a small mis understanding or difference of opinion even most strong relationships break.
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
Looking back at old friends relationship and even with childhood friends,I'm blessed to still have them all intact, of course we grew apart physically because some moved on diffrent locations and we seldom see each other but the friendship is still there. I believe relationships(friendships) are worth restoring and if I am at your shoes I will definitely do the same,will try to do something with her againor invite her to hang out,or send her a card or write her a letter and maybe just maybe she'll remember the laughters we shared.. God bless you on pursuing that firend of yours again!