which will you choose

China
October 16, 2007 3:28am CST
Since three months,I have been puzzled by one question--will I love him at all costs without any requests and teturns or just enjoy this feeling privately without considering much about the result.Said the truth, he is not my ideal valentine, till now I even don't know why I love him(maybe it's only like),and this feeling isn't like before, it is becoming more and more deep and beautiful.Now I learn that appearance or some other exterior things of him is not important at all,I think I have grown up. But this time a new problem come out,in fact this problem exists all the time,I think he doesn't plan to solve it also I even don't plan to ask him to solve it ....So now,I must choose to leave, be sensible,be safe,maybe~~~~
1 response
Dr. Ann
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Well you have not given us much information, but I can guess. You must be sensible in order to remain safe, yes. Young girls should think with their heads and not their hearts and not allow themselves to be taken advantage of.
xiebocong
@xiebocong (30)
• China
19 Oct 07
Thank you for your response,it is my first response I received.In fact,the information I didn't give is a little complex,maybe both of us don't consider much about our future more ,we just enjoy this feeling privately.But now,I found I must control my feeling and my action,like you say,I must think by my head not by my heart