who take care of your children? yourself or babysat?

i'm the one who take care of my daughter,i don't want to have a baby sitter for my baby coz i'm afraid..sometimes, it's my mother who take care of her..i'm a single mom, and i'm always there for her but i'm about to start a new job next week as a baby sitter and it's hard for me coz i will be home atleast once a week coz i need to stay in the house where i will work..i will miss my daughter but it's for her coz she don't have a dad..

hi qinqin,how are you i do not have any children qinqin, iam not even marry...lol but if i have children i will treat them by my self i will not let them to any babysitter.

I believe it's useless to go to work and pay another person to take care of your child! For me that would be escaping reality. I'm currently waiting to start a family, but until I'm ready financially to stop working I will not have any babies! If I do get pregnant unexpectadely I will surely quit work.

I do it myself. I am only staying here at home so I prefer to take care of my family. And I dont want to spend money for a job that I know I can do by myself. And I also believe that it is better if a child would grow up under the care of the mother, if in the case of a mother is staying at home. I prefer to stay at home and work online instead.

Im the one who takes care of my babies. I dont trust nannies coz i always think they might run away with my baby. If im overseas i entrust them to my mom or my family that is closer to me but not to some stranger ..Even if you have that nanny for 20 years already i still dont have the confidence to leave my kids to them.