What does your ideal love look like....
By Amy
@artemis432 (7474)
Abernathy, Texas
October 16, 2007 7:26pm CST
inside? What does your true love look like inside? What kind of person is s/he? What are his or her most endearing traits? What makes him or her beautiful - I don't mean physical traits here but things discussion is about the inside- so this would be things like - compassion for others makes him beautiful, or a love for animals, a respect for all living things - these are just examples of course - what makes your ideal love beautiful.
This is a two part question the second part is - there sometimes is a big difference between what you want and what you go for - settle for. Is the person you're with your ideal love - inside?
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@quanto50 (140)
• Sweden
17 Oct 07
Love is worlds most powerful noun and verb at the same time that made thousands of people sing and discuss about whole of their life.
It is a strong passion of person that is hard to decribe what it is like.It is just felt by heart and only empathic people could understand it.Nowadays people love for money and body desires.They don't have that fire and passion.
I feel love for women mostly because of their beauty and wisdom they possess.Because women they have special place in human history.They did everything for mankind.
Love for animals and other living things is also something humans feel as a continuation of their empathic circle that they could feel the same thing that those organism could feel like.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
19 Oct 07
Um. REal interesting stuff. Care to participate in my discussion? What inner traits does your ideal woman woman possess.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
19 Oct 07
I do appreciate the praise - as a woman. Ah well, I guess you don't want to participate - is it a secret? What traits your ideal woman holds - or is your ideal wman all women?
Sounds like as a whole, you love all women. Perhaps the traits of all are the traits of your one?
@quanto50 (140)
• Sweden
19 Oct 07
women..women..what could be more precious and more valuable than them ..than their love and care..they are the wonders of the world...they are the wonders of the world and continuer's of the human race--just imagine how much their smile and love could contain ..it is incalculable..
In Scandinavian countries all the social and and service sectors are 90% dominated by the women..their presence just made the boom.. the efficiency went up by 150%..every time I go to my bank to withdraw a bit of money I see them smiling and I just feel that I am really living.. :-)
Woman--they are the givers of life..of the human life ..they are source of happiness and the source of love.. because they give it to their child ..actually according to the statistics children raised without their mothers are more inclined to do the crime and evil.
Woman they just make our world better.. they just decorate it.. Woman never do bad stuff or evil things.. because their hearts does not contain it..they don't have negative charges in their brain..they are very very tolerant and easy going..because their minds are wired with th Deepest Feeling of Empathy and and Deep Morality that they give to their children and to other humans..if you ask help from them they never reject..Their cute smiles..their care and love..their mild hands and soft voices..their mild whispers.. give the humanity motivation to live and go forward..
They are splendid.I wanna appeal all the Men Society to respect and love their women and always care for them..always make them smile and love them..
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@smiggy (18)
• Canada
17 Oct 07
He is warm, compassionate, caring, sweet, generous..etc..someone who sees the beauty in all things, who will love me despite the many flaws that i see in my self, someone who loves animals, who would love to give time for the needy, someone who is so selfless and so kind-hearted that even holding a door for someone else can give me the warm fuzzies, someone who does things like calling to say he misses me (little things DO count), someone who would surprise me out of the blue, someone who would know if i'm having a bad day and will take the time to listen to me..
Yes he does exist :P he's SOOO beautiful on the inside that the outside is just a bonus.. and everyday i stand in awe of how incredibly lucky i am to have him..Wowwwwww!?!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
17 Oct 07
I got that and it makes me happy that you have found him! What great traits he has. He sounds beautiful inside.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
17 Oct 07
Well I always kid people and say the actor Viggo Mortensen (Aragon of Lord Of The Rings) is my future husband..LOL Physically yes I do love the way he looks...do prefer how he looks as Aragon though..hehe
But in some ways he could be my twin...he's a photographer..I'm a photographer...he's an artist,...I'm an artist...he's a musician..well I USED to play guitar...he's an actor...I did at one time act myself...He's also greatly involved with issues, both political and not...one of his causes he supports is the American Anti-Vivisection Society, The Wilderness Society..and so forth--so gee, sort of ideal for me...no? :)
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
17 Oct 07
He does sound ideal. Darn, I wish I could name some ways that Jenson Ackles or Heath Ledger and I are so obviously ideal for each other! We better become famous soon so that he can realize it!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
19 Oct 07
Totally confused by your answer. Great information but nothing to do with my discussion. Everyone is welcome to participate though, my question was, what inner traits does your ideal lover possess?
BTW, I'm the same, I love guys with glasses - and my husband has perfect eyesight.
@MatsuJun (68)
• Italy
17 Oct 07
Well i think an ideal partner must have something in common with you..If i really love something..i can't bare to be with someone with HATES that thing...(i'm not talking about everything, just some things I can't live without)...apart from that..of course it must be loyal, sicere and cool! ^_^ I haven't found the perfect man yet, but i think is normal since I'm 16 :P
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
19 Oct 07
Wow, great, great answer MatsuJun. What great traits you look for! And you actually read the discussion! So you gave me inner traits - no physical ones - yay! You're young you have years to find the perfect man!
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
I consider my husband as my true love. we are married for almost six years now. He is a kind-hearted person. he always want to extend help to others. he is the real family man. He loves me and our children very much. Even his parents and siblings. He always wanted the best for all of us to the point that he sacrifices a lot. He is sweet and always remembers our anniversary and birthdays.
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
17 Oct 07
Wow you answered my discussion so beautifully and sweetly. This is exactly what I was looking for - non physical traits that make him ideal for you... I so appreciate your willingess to share. Have fun mylotting.
@moondan (712)
• China
17 Oct 07
To me ,my ideal love is depend on emotional not physical.I believe there is ture love in the world.Love a pearson ,not for her beautiful looking,not for her money ,just for her feeling.When you ask a people why do you love he/her,you may answer "no reason"!you noly love the person.You will think she is beautiful when she crying,angering,smiling and so on.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
17 Oct 07
Wow you agree - which is why I am clear in my discussion that I want to know what NON-PHYSICAL traits make up your ideal mate. So want to participate in my discussion? I would really love for you to because it sounds like you and are on the same page as far as going for emotional - and also for me,mental not physical. So my question for this discussion is - what NON-PHYSICAL traits make up your ideal trait?
