what place is a better one for dating especially the first date?
By jerry23sijie
@jerry23sijie (4)
China
October 16, 2007 9:47pm CST
I am over 20, live in a big city with my parents, haven't got a boyfriend now. My friends and my family introduced some guyes to me. I usually met them in Cafe or Tea house chatted for a while. but I don't think that's a good idea 'cause people cannot be known only through talking. and I believe in falling love with each other at the first sight. but until now I have never had any passion on the guys I met. so maybe it's the problem of getting the wrong place. Would you recomand me some nice romantic places for the very first blind date?
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@surfette (673)
• United States
17 Oct 07
Love at first sight is wonderful and romantic, but finding the soul of the person is the key to long lasting relationships. That's how you find your "soul mate".
Since you do live in a big city, there are many interesting cultural or social events on most weekends. My husband and I went to a town craft and street fair for our first date. We had breakfast and browsed all the booths. It gave us a chance to talk leisurely about all the wonderful items displayed and eliminated any awkward moments or silences. We didn't have a lack of conversation, but it wasn't a nerve-wracking experience trying to figure out what to say next either.
You could visit an art museum or fair, an arboretum or if that's not your cup of tea, if available, a comedy show or review. Nothing breaks the ice like laughter.
Hope these suggestions help. I do believe in fate and if you are willing to let life happen and wait for the "right one", I'm sure it will happen to you. It sure did for me.
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@peppy510 (25)
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17 Oct 07
dear jerry happy to know that you are single till now believe me stay that way for a little long say another 8-10 years enjoy the freedom don't get into relationships right know and even if you want to date have it in your own house believe me you are more secured that way or else you may have to regret later.Think about it once again
@trialrun01 (644)
• India
17 Oct 07
I think any public place like a food joint or a discotheque can be the ideal place of dating
@MatsuJun (68)
• Italy
17 Oct 07
I'll opt for a movie! In the first meeting, you can't know each other very well, and only talking might be a problem...XD If you opt for a movie, you can talk a bit but also have the time to think: of a topic of conversation...
and you can also know each other by commenting the film and so on...
@rbardhan (193)
• India
17 Oct 07
Love does not depend upon place. just try to understand the persons behaviour to words you and try to understand whether it is real or not.you can meet any where or any place. But i think you have to collect more information from your introducer and friends. believe over them.
