What if you are given least importance in ur family.

@saunty (604)
India
October 18, 2007 3:57am CST
Most of the time it so happens that u feel to be the person with least importance in yur family, at this situation we sometimes loose our patiense and argue with even our elders, and that even worsen the condition. Our reputation in our family becomes worst and no one ever trust you or gime value to ur words. This is the situation with me here in my family, can you people please help me come out of this complicated situation.
5 responses
@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
8 Sep 08
That, my dear, is great motivation for you to soldier on and achieve more. The best you can is just concentrate on what you are doing. And whatever you do, do it for your own good and not to impress anyone. You will find that you achieve greater heights, and gradually, everyone will take you as their favourite.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
6 Nov 07
hi dear, you know the cause as well as the output of it. the cause of the ill behaviour could be certain personal reasons but the suferer is you, so in this case while handling this situation there are certain do and dont's. Dos & donts : Be in your self, just ignore evryone else, try to be the way they want you to be like being on time not talking or interferin the matters much, not violating or hurting any member of the family.Be involved in your work and your self, enroll your self in actvities. dont argue with any one in the family.stay quiet, dont loose hope and heart, try an regain your position back in ur fmaily by doin things they like. at the end you can cook something good for them to patoa them.take care
• India
31 Oct 07
well it would be most painful for me but i would try to reattain my recognition in a fair manner
@shak143 (1280)
• India
18 Oct 07
good saunty you wan't to come out of the situation and your fighting for your value and one representation in your family.try to tell them what you want to tell in polite manner saying that if you like my words then implement it otherwise leave it.if we say like this they try to listen our words and may they like it.try to please them.go in there style only but do what you want to do.
@DarkAng3L (106)
• Romania
18 Oct 07
The smae thing is happeing to me. I have tried different ways, but nothing seems to work. They always say to me that I don't care. We have arguments every time because it seems that I am too stubborn in their eyes.