if given the chance, would you...

I dont think I want kids. I like how my life is going, and I just dont think Im mentally, physically or financially ready. I also have to consider my partners feelings on this as well, and hes not wanting any either. He doesnt feel he could financially support a child. Our lifestyle has no room for children really. Hes gone way too much working, and thats not fair to the child. I think both parents need to be involved in the childs life. I dont think just one of them is more important than the other. I have my moments though. I worry about being childless and sometimes feel it makes me less of a woman because I dont. I dont want to have a child just to have someone to take care of me when I cant in my old age, and I hear a lot of people saying that. "Well whos going to take care of you?" Why should that be the burden of them? Im sure they would have their own lives. Some people make it sound like its the childs "job" or something and I just dont agree. I get all gaga at the thought of us creating a little combination of us, but it doesnt last long. I come to the realization that having a baby isnt all cutsie and good things. Its tough, and too many people take it lightly I think. Im just better off without them. Bay xx

yes, i want kids even i don't have a husband..actually, i'm a single mom and never think to abort my child before, eventhough my boyfriend leave me when i'm still 3mos pregnant..it's a disaster time for me, that i almost die and i'm very depressed but i stood up and have the determination to live for my child..she's my life and i'm so much happy to have her..

Of course, I wanted to have kids someday but not this time because I wanted to give them a good future. So by now I am working so hard just to save money. I don't want my future kids to experience what I've experienced when I was young. I'm not saying that we were poor but our father didn't took care of us and there were times that we had to live with our relatives which for me wasn't good because some of our relatives didn't treat us good. So when I have kids I wanted them to feel that they are loved and they are very important in my life.

Being a mom is the most important thing I do. I don't know that its what I am best at, but it sure does make up who I am. Would have I have chosen not to have any kids? I can't imagine my life without them, not sure I would be the person I am today. In your conceiving efforts, keep in mind that it will happen. Concentrate more on becoming the person you want to be when you raise your kids, and not so much on creating them. It all comes together.

If I have a chance I will have as many kids as I can, I really love kids, and I feel like if I get married and I do not have kids my family will be incomplete...

I have 3 beautiful boys, and I've been so happy since they came to my life. I was only 16 when my 1st son was born, it has been quite hard but i've managed to survive, I never considered the possibility of not having them, I knew they will fill my life with love. I love my kids and would not change them for anything in this world. Even now after having 3 boys, I would consider the possibility of adopting another child, there are so many out there that need a parent to love them :)

it is inhuman to give birth and kill. god have made human beings so that you could be responsible, if u don't want them then don't have them at first, plan in a way so that you should not have them. but killing makes no sense.

I have wanted children all of my life. But, I am not yet married. It makes me very angry to hear of women doing such things to kill their children. It is a very sad world when innocent children are murdered and thrown away like so much trash because one or both of the parents did something they had no business doing.

i do not ahve kids but i want kids and i feel everyone who aborts there kids of does harm to there kids are wrong and twisted i believe that babies are a gift from god above to us on earth and we should treasure them and nuture and watch the grow and help them to mature i feel that if people dont want there kids they should put there kids up for adoption because there are many couples out there who are unable to have kids but desperately want toio have a kid so i think people should think before they before they abort or do harm to there kids!!!!!!

when I got married, one of my reasons was to have a baby. However, it took us almost to have one. So I don't understand why some women prefer to abort their fetus or dump them in trash bin. Babies give us a bundle of joy.

hi i love kids...and i love to have some someday, if God allows... and i feel sad that they just do that to their own flesh and blood... when some people are trying so hard and doing all the things they can... hope you will be able to get pregnant soon!!! God bless and take care....

I have 4 kids, and yeah, there are times when I wish I hadn't had them as I feel I fall short of the mark of what a good mother is. I love them to bits, and we are now planning on having #5. It is worth it in the end, but their are times when you find yourself going bald from all the stress. Good luck and I hope you have your own bundle on the way soon.

i have 3 kids 2 teenagers and a 1 year old now the one year old was a huge surprise and i thank god for giving her to us but whe i found out i was pregnant i didnt know what id do i had no business having another baby, i didnt work and te father didnt work and we only cared about partying and i even had warrants for my arrestbecause i didnt take care of any thing now i wasnt always like that only a year and a half of my life,i dont know what i was thinking but anyways i straightened up during my pregnancy and 2 weeks after she was born went over on the nevada side. i ived in az and nevada is across the road about half mile from my house at the time to cash in a pay ticket cause we had no money and i was gonna get diapers and remember i still had a warrant but the warrant was in az and i got picked up in nv, it was for a felony failure to appear so i ended up spending 40 days in las vegas jail waiting to be taken to az and when i got to az i was released because i was never even served the papers anyways i was never found guilty on any charges but i missed 40 days off my babys life, i cried every day to be with my baby it was the worst thing i have ever gone hrough and now her father works and makes good money, weve bought a new home and since moved. we have completly change our lives and its all bcause we have this little girl in our lives to love not that i didnt cre about my other children i had just gotten caught up in some bad stuff.at the time my baby was born i had my tubes tied now i actually wish i never did that im even been thinking about getting them untied but iam 35 now so may be kinda late, but i truely thank god every day for my littl girl she is the best and im so thankful her father and i could get our lives back on track i could only imagine what kinda mom i would have been other wise i hate to think about that but yes given the chance i would definately do it again

same here. ive been trying to conceive before[without doctors help] but ive stop. for now im not ready yet to consult a doctor. i ask my mom but she says its still not time for me. But i would really want kids. i love them. i hate those people who go thru abortion or to those who dump their child. how horrible they are!

I love my son. I think with all of my heart and soul that abortion is MURDER. Nothing more.. Nothing less.. I think that the women who leave their babies in a trashbag by the side walks should have the same thing done to them. It's freaking cruel. If you don't want your child after giving birth, don't just leave the child to die. Take him/her to a local place that takes babies. Hospitals do that normally no questions asked. I wouldn't change that I had my son. He's my pride and joy. I think that the women who have the abortions should at least think of the ladies and couples out there who want babies and if you don't want to keep the baby then give him//her up for adoption. Good luck in your concieving! I hope you get a big Freaking Positive (BFP) soon and your pregnancy is healthy and produces a healthy baby!

I have a 16 month old lil girl, and I love her with all my heart and soul, she is my world. My hubby and I were engaged when we conceived her, and I was told for ten years I couldn't have kids. She really is a miracle and I think the women that can have kids, but abuse that privelage make the moms who can't have kids (or think they can't) VERY upset!

I have two little kids now,and I never have a wist that I don't have them. They are very special for me.I love my children very much. I could not live without them. I feel like I always want to be with them, that's why I always bring them whenever I go. But I guess I will not able to do that when they grow up later :)

I used to think that I wouldn't want kids...I was tomboyish and I didn't feel that I was great with kids compared to my friends whom I thought would be "natural" mothers 'coz they could play with kids with great ease. However, all that changed when one of my best friends got pregnant and I followed her pregnancy until the baby was born. Then I realized that I had maternal instincts. So I do want to have one at least (hope God'll let us have our own kid). :-))))

Well i think that those who have children and then abort them are not real parents,if you did not want them in the first place why did had them.

kids or no kids? hmmm... well as far as i am concern for now i don't think so. I have enough niece and nephews to complete my day. I also have a brother to annoy me so, i think i don't need them just yet. Well i definitely want them someday too.