That Little Something You've Never Done Alone: Seen A Movie?
@gtargirl (5376)
United States
October 19, 2007 3:11pm CST
I don't like going places on my own. But life forces us, of course. No one wants to accompany me to the supermarket so I have to shop alone. It's like all eyes are on me, brrrr yuck! Anyhow, there's two things I have yet to conquer, so to speak: I've never seen a movie by myself and I've never sat in a restaurant with just me. And you, is there something you have not done alone?
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@trinihd (996)
• United States
19 Oct 07
I have done a lot of things alone, watched movies a couple of times, eaten in restaurants too, lived alone when I was in grad school. If I travel alone, there is no likelihood there will be someone I can dine with all the time, so ...it's not like you can prevent that, unless you drag your friends everywhere you go!
As for watching a movie alone, I have to say, for me it doesn't seem like the ideal thing, even though you don't really talk to the person, but it's just not something I prefer to do alone....maybe it's a "head" thing...because really there should be nothing wrong with that!
If there is anything I have NOT done alone is spend Christmas day! LOL It's always with family or with friends...and I really wouldn't have it any other way!
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@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
20 Oct 07
Yeah, maybe it is a "head" thing. I get lonely too, and I don't like being the only one around. Which is strange because I am sort of a loner. Go figure. And I'm glad you get to spend Christmast day with family. That's how it should be. Ironically, that is something I've done alone. sigh.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
19 Oct 07
I have done a lot of things alone. I have never traveled alone though. Even when I went on the bus to see my aunt out in the country, there were people in the bus as well. I have shopped alone, and eaten at a restaurant alone, but come to think of it, I never ate alone because there were people around me.
So except for taking a bath, being in my own washroom, going for a walk, most of the time there was someone around.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
20 Oct 07
Now you've brought up something. People are usually alone when on the bus. I mean they're not with someone they know. I don't like going for a walk alone either. Looks like you enjoy these things.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
19 Oct 07
yes I am the same way I hate doing things alone, at the most I will go to the store but thats about it
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
20 Oct 07
I haven't been to a movie alone since I was a child that is. I do occasionally dine alone in a restaurant. My past job required overnight stays in other towns and I had to often dine alone. I love to shop alone. Maybe it is time to go to a movie alone again.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
20 Oct 07
If you go to a movie alone, let us know how that felt. Are you getting used to dining out alone? Maybe it won't be as bad as I think. Mmmm. Have a good weekend.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
19 Oct 07
I have seen a movie alone. YOu don't sit there and chat with the person you talk to that much during a movie do you? Whats the difference with sitting there alone?
Most recently I saw Ratatouilli alone, but I've seen others.
Anyhow. I have never gone to a restaurant alone. That's just something I don't want to do. I don't eat out often anyhow and I just, I think restaurants are a conversational place and it's weird to be there alone.
I think Restaurants are about the only thing i haven't done alone.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Yeah, I know you're right about the movie thing. But have you noticed there's not too many people alone in a theather? For some reason I just feel so uncomfortable by myself even though I think I would enjoy it. Mmmm, I confuse myself most of the time. Thanks for sharing, Raychill.
@xboxboy (5576)
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19 Oct 07
i have eaten alone in a restuarant when mom and dad went to glasgow overnight. i ate at franco's. spent all the money they left but it was worth it. loved it! eating on my own observing all all the couples and the different ways they interplay. loved it all!
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@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
19 Oct 07
You are a very outgoing young man, aren't you? Nice for mom and dad to leave a chunck of money. Franco's sounds a little uptown. Glad you enjoyed. You have style, my friend.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
There was only one time in my life I saw a movie alone. That was way back when I was in high school. I had this crazy crush over a new Filipino celebrity-actor. When he got married to his co-host in his evening variety show, I was so heartbroken! They had their first movie together, and in that movie, they included the video and pictures of their wedding day. I saw that movie alone. And the funny thing about it is that I was crying while watching that movie...LOL! After that, I never, ever watched a movie alone. But I do eat in restaurants alone when I'm really hungry but that rarely occurs.
@gtargirl (5376)
• United States
20 Oct 07
Wow, traveling by yourself. That's a little scary too. I've been thinking of it recently since I might have to travel up North for the weekend. Flying by myself!!! Eeeeck. Hope I survive. Thanks for your input.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
20 Oct 07
I've gone to supermarkets alone, sat in restaurants alone, and seen a movie alone. Sometimes I just like going by myself to places, even though watching movies is definitely MUCH more fun with a friend or more than one friend. However, if I can't find someone to go with me, I won't let it stop me from enjoying myself he he he...
However, I've never gone to bars/pubs alone. :-))))
@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
21 Oct 07
I can understand not being in a restaurant or going to a movie by yourself. My advies, don´t do it.
Why? Because I have.
Once I went to an Italian restaurant by myself.
I was asked if I was waiting for someone!
I was so imbarresed.
But why can´t a women go out alone?
If a man does it, there is no problem, but when we do it ...
In the supermarket I learned to not care if people stare at me.LOL.
They have nothing beter to do, that is there problem.
I have just as much right to be there as they do.
Oke, and what I have not done alone?
Good question, what have I never done alone?
I am an only child. I learned very jong to do everything alone. And know that I am old,(LOL) I realize I have had alot of advantage from this experience.
Somehow, I always have something to do.
Nog een fijne dag toegewenst.
Groetjes Margajoe.
@pillowpants1982 (52)
• United States
20 Oct 07
I would never go out to eat alone. I'd feel too alone and it would be sad.
Movies are dark, and most people can't see who is there
@sophylline (1041)
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
I don't have any problems going out alone. I go to the supermarket alone, it's no big deal. Sometimes I have also eaten out on a hamburger chain, by myself. Though it was just a quick snack. Going to the theater by myself, though is one thing. I can see and understand why you don't want to go there alone. I don't want to either. It just seems weird that watching a movie and not have anybody to go with. I don't really know the reason why.
@princessmom1011 (719)
• United States
20 Oct 07
Same goes here i have never seen a movie alone or eaten in a restaurant alone, however there are many things i do enjoy doing without kids and hubby in tote and that is grocery shopping or perhaps even shopping in general i can get in and get out without the hassle of i want or wondering where they ran off to etc. but i can not see myself now or anytime soon alone in the theaters or restaurannt!
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
20 Oct 07
I have never seen a movie alone. I would rather go with someone to enjoy the movie. I have sat in a restaurant alone, when I was working I would take a book with me or a newspaper to read while I ate, but most often I didn't like eating alone. Going to the supermarket or shopping doesn't bother me so much when I am alone. I can go to whatever shops I like and buy whatever I like with no one tagging behind or wanting to go to other shops. But still it is fun to go with a friend.