worse thing done
@phillygirl606 (1112)
United States
October 20, 2007 11:39pm CST
What is the worse thing a friend as ever done to you? and are you still friends with this person?
I would have to say it was someone I had considered my besfriend. Of course it was over a guy. Well anyway I was dating this guy, and i knew she kinda had a thing for him. Which didn;t bother me none. He couldn;t stand her.. that was a first. Than Everyone started telling me that they were hanging together whenever I wasn;t around. So I ended the relationship before anything happened such as cheating. Even after the break up she swore she didn;t like him. About a month later there she is knocking on my door. Asking me if it would be ok of she started dating him. I told her to do what she wanted to do but that our friendship wouldn;t be the same if she did. Well she swore up and down that it wouldn;t change our friendship but I knew better. Like I really would have wanted to go and hang with my bestfriend and my exboyfriend. I didn;t want anything to do with her after that. We;ll run into eachother every now and than but it's only small talk, like how are you doing? stuff like that. So she lost a friend and isn;t even with him anymore but the damage has already been done..
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Sounds to me like she choose the guy over you b/c you told her straight up it wouldn't be the same.
I had some friends in life that sucked, but I try to focus on the good friends now and not dwell on those who were not really friends to me :) I hope you are doing the same!
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@phillygirl606 (1112)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Yes am doing the same am not dwelling on her. I whole outlook is that if she could do that than shes was never a true friend in the first place. Karma will get her back one day, lol
@phillygirl606 (1112)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Yes am doing the same am not dwelling on her. I whole outlook is that if she could do that than shes was never a true friend in the first place. Karma will get her back one day, lol
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
21 Oct 07
Tried to kill me, repeatedly. And no, I am no longer friends with this person. I hope to never see him again, as long as I live. However, I do care very deeply for his sister (whom I dated many years ago). She doesn't speak to me about him unless I ask, and she only says that he is "Fine, but still insane and dangerous."
I think it's odd the things that friendships break up over, honestly. I know so many people who ended long-standing friendships over romances, and I've never been able to understand it. I've had friends who dated my ex's before, and I've never let it be an issue. Granted, I've also had ex's who dated my ex's, which is even weirder. =P
@phillygirl606 (1112)
• United States
21 Oct 07
wow thats crazy. so he really tried to kill you? but why? because he was mad at or did he have mental problems?
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
21 Oct 07
It's sad how romance can ruin friendships. I haven't personally experienced something like this, because my friends and I respect each other's boundaries. But I have seen it happen in other people -- friendships ruined because they fell in love with the same girl.
@madebyrobyn (616)
• Australia
21 Oct 07
Hrmm... the worst thing... well I have two....
1. My best friend of 10 years married a very controlling overly religious elderly man and moved into the middle of the country never to be seen again pretty much! I miss her, she does write to her family occasionally and I have found out that she has four children, would be lovely to be able to see them and for them to meet my four kids too!
2. A close friend of mine slept with my boyfriend at the time and I kind of knew there was something going on between them because of the way they looked at eachother. I asked her about it and she denied it flat out but then told everyone else in our circle of friends that she and my boyfriend were cheating on me... and I had to find out through friends of friends who were telling me about the situation not realising that I was the one they were talking about!
@MatsuJun (68)
• Italy
21 Oct 07
Well..i can understand you..
Well, i had 2 friends...one female, who i knew from like 10 years and one male, that i knew only from a year, thanks to my girl friend. We were hanging up everyday and we were like three best friends, but i kinda liked the guy...and the girl said to me that i should try it out, that she was happy with us togheter...and then one night we were drunk and we kissed...but i didn't wanted it to change our friendship, so togheter we decided to stay friends...And after that my girl friend started talking less with me..and one month later she was completly gone..i couldn't reach her on msn nor her cellphone...and gradually she took also him away from me..because he didn't show up either..and now one year passed and they are still friends, but i don't hear neither of them from a year..they were my best friends and i don't know why she get angry or anything, because she didn't tell me...well..maybe is better this way ^^
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 07
I'm sorry about this. I know how hard this is. You lost two person who you'd trusted before. A "Friend" seems just left a name, the relationship is getting widen and hard to be filled just like past times. We cannot do anything to recover this condition anymore, because it's a multiplying wound that would be likely hard to be cured.
Just live on, later you may find someone who is your real one.
Thanks for sharing.
