Anger is a great evil for
By subathra
@subathra (3519)
India
October 21, 2007 8:39am CST
Anger is a thing that can destroy the whole families happiness.when a person gets angry he/she should not keep controlled the emotions herself/himself.It should be spilled out inorder to feel light hearted.Experianced people always advise us to do this.There is no medicine to take in to get rid of our anger .It is everyones duty to live in harmony with everyone.At times it doesnot happen as his/her anger burst out and spoils the comforts of other people..
The person who is anger mood should be able to control his/her dirty anguish and being educated should know the consequences of anguish..Owing to the result of anger things at home get broken the true friendship gets spoiled, the relationship become questionnable and the stress gets increased ..
why a person gets angry? In my opinion it may be due to financial losses, things not happening according to his/her plan, failures of friendship are some main reasons could be put forward why a person becomes wild at times..
The best thing is to let some one know in detail why he/she is in anguish once we let your anger out of our mind and keep in control we will feel comfortable and no one gets hurt..
This is my view regarding anger..do share your views about why someone gets anger and get out of control...
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11 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
23 Oct 07
Dear Friend, its saying that only those person are brave who can control their anger.
well anger is very common nowadays in third world countries. its mostly frustration. people are trapped in financial barriers, relegious barriers, race barriers, Skilled people are not geting oppurtunity, so frustration is poping up.
Family bonds are getting weaker, respects to elders is vanishing, all these factoprs are making youth angry, so a lot need to be done all over the world
Sure Anger is worst enemy of human, it take ur all senses at that time and u end up having regrets after that on the action u take
so be brave and control ur anger, best way is to diverts ur attention from reason making u angry
take care
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
21 Oct 07
You are right. Temper is a valuable thing so they say do not lose it by unleashing it on others. Any one who can win over the anger, I shall arrange to make him seated next to god. Everyone of us get anger, the great thing is to get over it within minutes and come to normalcy. When one gets anger, it changes the chemistry of the body. The aura built up by a person is destroyed in seconds.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
23 Oct 07
I agree with all your views that anger can play havoc in one's life. Anger can destroy the relationship in a minute of in a split second. Though, anger is a natural emotion of a human being, yet one is required to learn, where and when to show his anger. If anger is shown at the wrong time, it can be fatal and devastating.
Good Post indeed!
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Oct 07
Hi,
There is a direct and an indirect process of becoming angry. If we are referring to anger as an emotion like sadness, hurt, or joy, anger is simply a direct feeling response. So something happens, and we may react to it with feeling hurt, angry, or some other emotion.
However, anger can also be a secondary emotion. Many people (particularly males) are trained to accept the feeling of anger, but not to accept the feelings that may have preceded it; such as feelings of hurt, fear, or vulnerability. Sometimes when we feel hurt or vulnerable, we immediately jump to anger because that’s more acceptable to us. It becomes a secondary emotion, it’s the feeling we can tolerate rather than such feelings as hurt or vulnerability.
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@richard140521 (24)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
yup!! Anger is your best friend when you want to kill some one!!! ehehehehehehe... your are all crazy!!
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@anup12 (4177)
• India
22 Oct 07
Yes definitley I agree with you 200%. Anger and hatred are the worst things that are affetcing today's world and it is greatly affecting our lives in a big way. I think there is a lot of anger within a person, be it against somebody,religion,goverment etc. Ultimately it ruins one's life very badly.
@mansha (6298)
• India
25 Oct 07
I believe anger is nothing but our inability to accept the truth that we are weak and we can not face truth that we can not achieve something-love, money, skill whatever. this leads to frustration hence sudden angry outbursts. Anger management for different individuals is different. ALl it requires mainly is a few minutes to cool down and not give in to sudden impulse to burst out. How you gain that time is upt to the individual.
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
24 Oct 07
Hi subathra! I agree with you on this discussion. Anger is a very bad thing that can seriously affect our lives in a cruel way. But I'd like to say, it depends on how far or the percentage on which we handle anger.
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
9 Nov 07
Anger in itself is very bad.Whena person is angry he does not know what he is saying & doing.Many times in a fit of anger relationships are broken.It has alos helath disadvntages.Many problems like heart attck,brain related problem occur when there is sudden fit of anger.
@quanto50 (140)
• Sweden
22 Oct 07
I think it really is a necessary thing that shouldn't ignored.Without anger you would not achieve a lot of things. Anger is the tool that makes sure whether that Reciprocity Contract is going the right way in an individuals life..All of us have responsibilities and expectations from other people and we get anxious and angry when we feel we'd been led down when our expectations are not met and when we feel we'd been regarded as fools by some other people. Just imagine what would happen if there wouldn't be anger. Nobody would do their responsibilities or reciprocities.So this evolutionary emotion or feeling has its own purposes and virtue.
