Will you give a second chance to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
By braveheart07
@braveheart07 (2601)
Philippines
October 21, 2007 8:12pm CST
Will you still give another chance to your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? If he or she has made you cry before, would you still accept his or her apology or sorry?
If I were in the situation, maybe yes. I might still forgive her. If I see that she is already true or genuine to herself, and that she is already regretting all the wrong things that she has made to me before, then I will never hesitate to forgive her.
Of course, we commit a mistake at first, but sometimes, we become strong when we commit a mistake and we want to correct it in the present time already.
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12 responses
@bestisyettocome (1531)
• United States
22 Oct 07
Think about it! They are exes for a reason. Didn't all the chances already occur that they were going to have before the final decision was made to be ex? I made the mistake of rejoining with my exhusband. Nothing changed. It took me three months again with him to realize that no way was I gonna have this life again.
I will never make the mistake again, to return together with an ex.
@bestisyettocome (1531)
• United States
23 Oct 07
I agree totally with you viewpoint. Get over it and move on. Thanks.
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
If we think that we are not happy returning back again with our ex, then I think we have to move on and find a new one who will truly give us happiness and joy for lifetime.
Take care you always!
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@prEttyNbluE (299)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
if he's worth, why not!..LOL!..seriously, if i do still love him and if that second chance will make us both happy, for sure i'll give it a try. as of the moment, i haven't tried giving a second chance with my ex..LOL!! :-)
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
Yes, you're right. Why not, we don't know if he is going to love you truly and faithfully this time around with all his heart!
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
22 Oct 07
It depends on what the problem was.
For example if I had a boyfriend who physically hurt me, or kept playing mind games or was overly controlling I probably would not give them another chance because I would be better off without them and I doubt they would change, or at least not permanently.
Smaller things I would, but as you say you would want their attitude to be genuine.
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
22 Oct 07
Nice decision. If the person is trying to hurt you physically before, I think there is no reason to give him another chance.
There is no assurance in this regard.
@topei12 (272)
• Philippines
2 Nov 07
I guess I might! Because that's what they always do to me. They always give me a second chance after doing something wrong.
@pearlineabraham (23)
• India
2 Nov 07
i might forgive him... but... wont accept him as my boy fren after that... because.... he commited a mistake... what assurance i have tat he won do it again....???!!!
@pearlineabraham (23)
• India
2 Nov 07
i ,ight forgive him... but... wont accept him as my boy fren after that... because.... he commited a me=istake... what assurance i have tat he won do it again....???!!!
@fredgame (1260)
• China
2 Nov 07
Well, it depends on what she has done and if i realise that her comeback is geniune and she really regreted for the past mistake i don't mind to forgive her and it strongly depends on if i've not got a new girlfriend. if by the time she decides to comeback and i've got a girlfriend whom i love then i'm afraid i'll only accept her appology and let her know that i've found someone i love and i can't break up with her. otherwise i'll give her the second chance.
@ladydi9red (50)
• Puerto Rico
22 Oct 07
Brave, It really depends on the situation but I really believe in forgiveness. About giving him or her another chance, as I said, it all depends what he or she did. I can forgive, maybe not forget cause there are things in life you can never forget, good or bad experiences. However, it's from those experiences that you learn in life. To correct mistakes and apply them to your life is also good, it denotes a person good will and feelings.
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
1 Nov 07
i think everbody deserves a second chance or in some case its more than that! but if u feel that the person is sincere or felt remorse over his/her past action and that person deserve the second chance! but if the same mistake happens over and over again well u would know if u have enough!
@shakirabijin (79)
• Philippines
2 Nov 07
Yeah I can forgive him because as human beings we do commit mistakes because we are not perfect. But then the issue of coming back to him as a lover well it depends if I still love him because if I don't love him anymore there's no use of accepting him again as my boyfriend for it will only ruin a good relationship of friendship between us.
