A friend that's talking to himself. Do you have this kind?
By aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
October 21, 2007 9:14pm CST
First, after my broke up with my ex-spouse, he said I just use my times for my ex-spouse rather than to them. Yes, I admit it is getting hard to organize time when we had spouse, and how to divide those times in sharing to both sides. I rarely went to see them when in the relationship with my ex-spouse.
I admitted it was my fault, but my friends all had forgiven me. Because it was my first time that time. And he who told me this, had been in several relationships before ahead of me.
He is still single when said this advice.
Not long after, he is in a relationship, then he rare come to us, our friends group. Now what, isn't what he said once, he can't apply it himself well. It's not only about this, many things he said, but in the end I found he himself didn't apply it no better than me. And I feel it's right, it's easy to see through others than to see into ourself.
What do you think? Do you have this kind of friend in your life?
2 responses
@Grooval (23)
• China
22 Oct 07
However, we are friends,and friends should be tolerant,bovine,considerate and man-to-man to each other.So I told her about my feelings on this and said I would not want her to have this bad habit,but all what she promised to do after I said seemed to be useless after no more than 5 seconds.And this really made me tur to bay.
@Grooval (23)
• China
22 Oct 07
I have the kind of friends who always advise that what I can do and what I can't,but she herself will never pay attention to the points she had repeated to me for thousands of times.Sometimes I think she is kindhearted and loyal to me so she wants to tell me some monition,however I can not stop myself to be whiny for her endless intervene.