Do you people believe in one-sided relationship?

India
October 22, 2007 6:01am CST
I didnt believe in it.I used to think that if there is something you are feeling for a person same feeling is in other person for you coz something must had occured between both of you which make you feel something for him/her.If you are loving a person just by watching him/her,it doesnt mean that you love that person,it just means that you like that person and respect him/her.I too love somebody.He used to be my friend.I have strong feelings for him but i dont xactly know what he feels about me.There are many instances when he doesnt feel anything but i feel to talk to him ,i dont understand why this is happening to me.Can you people help me out?
3 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
One sided relationship may exist and would last for long but I think that it would be really hard to be happy with that kind of relationship.It would only hurt the other one if the love he/she is giving do not come back to her or is being taken for granted. In a relationship it is important that you love him and he loves you. That will make you happy.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Oct 07
I think your answer lies in your question itself. You have got the feelings for him. Thats why youare feeling this way. There are so many things in life that have o explanation right away. One sided love is common and you have to try out yourself whether he loves you or not. Use some tricky questions and situations that can prove this.
@surajpkn (582)
• India
22 Oct 07
Well, the best solutions is talking about it directly over to him. Ask him what he feels about you. Ask him what love relationship means to him, how he wants to behave with you, what he expects from you and etc. That should sort things out between you two to have a happy love relationship.